poor DISTRIBUTION cables and after EFFECT

HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE REGULATOR

Get 4 seeds of English pea(Avocado pear),

 cut into pieces,
dry under the sun and grind into powder.

Put a teaspoon of this powder into your prepared palp or breakfast[tea]  and drink.
Once daily for 2 weeks.
It's anti cancer and works wonder in so many other things.

Adviced to be Prayerful during the treatment

THE BEST TIME TO START THINKING ABOUT YOUR RETIREMENT

1. One day you will retire. You won't be going to work. You won’t have office power any more. No influence or at best, a reduced influence. Your cash flow will also reduce.! Check retirement date on your payslip.
2. Always go for your 30days annual leave.
Whatever you do during your leave, is what you will be doing when you retire. If all you do is to sleep or watch football , then that’s what you are likely do do in your retirement. Remember the book of Proverbs. A little sleep and a little slumber, so shall your poverty multiply.
Watching Bayern munchen  and  Liverpool  matches  , will not save you heartache in retirement. Learn a trade or a skill during your leave. It will come handy. Spend your after-office hours learning something. Don’t spend it sleeping, Gossiping, watching soaps !! Same goes for your weekend. Make them productive. You will thank yourself for spending your time productively.
3. Invest for your retirement...
Your children are not retirement investment. Don’t bank on your children’s support or the support of friends or relations. That’s a BIG risk. It may not happen. Be ready to take care of yourself!! Everyone has his own responsibilities. They won’t be able to help you that much. You will also lose your dignity and respect if you adopt a life of begging.
4. Start a hobby early in your working days to take you along when you retire. Rearing chicken, farming or own a shop. Acquire marketable skills ( not useless paper certificates) Etc
5. Where shall you retire. Build yourself a home. Don't retire and start to rent a house or refuse to vacate government house. You will be at the mercy of your landlord at a time when your cash flow is not only reduced but unpredictable!!
6. Who shall be your dependants. By the time you retire, your children should be above 18, and self reliant.
7. Don't retire and stay in a big city unless you can TRULY afford it.
You can't continue living in a big city after 60 with limited financial resources. The language and the hustle will be hard for you. Where possible, Relocate to a less expensive town where your reduced take home (pension) can go further.
8. Have property which can be rented or converted into cash.
Have shares that pay good dividends. Plant cash trees. Rear goats, cultivate vegetables etc. these activities will not only give you income but will also keep you healthy.
9. Live a simple life.
If you never built a house at your rural home, dont use your retirement package to build. It is unwise unless you plan to live there on a permanent basis or you are super rich and therefore can afford the luxury. The choice is yours.
Note that many of retirees die early because of the following:
1. They are Not mentally prepared to retire.
2. Lack of finances
3. They Lapse into Depression
4 They develop Hypertension/ Diabetes because of worries, anxiety and uncertainty "and financial pressures.
10. Loss of friendships
Men tend to be loners more than women. Most women have a wide circle of friends in the community as well as in the workplace. For men, it can be limited to the workplace.

     Many government officials from top to down and business owners have been planning to retire for years. Yet, as they get closer to that magic date, anxiety about a wide range of issues often makes people question their decision to quit working.
Even though they’ve saved plenty of money, they may find it hard to make the transition into this new way of life .Young people should help those old people to understand that their financial plan is built for the long haul, it’s often helpful to step out of the numbers and address their fears. I’ve discovered that when a person makes a transition into retirement, they are often confronted with the reality that money management is not a math problem, it’s a battle “between the ears.” So, we need to connect the technical knowledge about finances with their personal fears to help them focus on what matters most to them.

YOUR DESK AT YOUR WORK PLACE IS NOT PERMANENT. ALWAYS PLAN FOR YOUR RETIREMENT.

REASONS WHY WIVES SHOULD EARN THEIR OWN MONEY TOO

No matter how wealthy a husband is, it is best the wife should also earn her own money. Whether through employment, or business. Whether she earns more money than him, she needs to earn her own money . Why do we say so ?
1."TO TAME THE HUSBAND"
Some men or most men often cheat and feel like they can get away with cheating on a woman who has no financial muscle. These men who cheat know that the woman can do nothing without him and so she will stay home with the child/children regardless of how bad he treats her. The first thing a man who is cheating and destroying a woman does is to financially strangle her. When a man has a wife who is financially capable of standing on her own, he tends to be in his good behavior because he knows she can walk out the moment he cheats, even with the child/children because she is capable. Men rarely mess with empowered women, such a woman can stand up to him. Wives with no finances, put up with all the evil done to them because they have been locked out of outside help and contact; their life is at home, no matter how toxic that home is
2. FOR PERSONAL FULFILLMENT .
In as much as men have dreams and feel fulfilled as they pursue them, women have dreams too. The same joy a man feels when providing for his family, building, funding projects; the woman should feel that too. Just like a man, when a woman does her dream job, lives her dreams, earns money and contributes to society; she feels more confident and filled with dignity
3. TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE .
A man is great by himself, but with his wife, he is greater; and so is the woman. When both husband and wife combine forces, they have better returns. More money never hurts a family that knows how to use money
4. TO PURSUE HER CAUSES .
We all as individuals have a personal cause we want to take care of in society. A woman might feel passionate about the environment, the arts, cyber security, orphans, leadership, fashion, health. When she has her own money that she has earned, after using part of the money in the family and marriage; she can finance those personal causes without begging for her husband to believe in and fund what she is so passionate about. Having her own money empowers her
5. FOR STABILITY .
Yes, storms happen in life. The husband can become broke, retrenched, his business can suffer huge losses or even worse, he could get sick or involved in an accident. When the productivity of the husband gets negatively affected or paused, the wife can step in even more and make sure the needs of the family are still met
6. TO MAKE GOOD USE OF HER SKILL .
She was taken to good schools; Primary to High School, maybe even University. Perhaps she has a Degree, Masters or PhD. Life has also taught her a lot and she has gained many skills and much wisdom; surely, all that should be put into productive use. Lady, don't waste your life away. Get out there and get involved. Work
7. TO REDUCE OVER-DEPENDENCE ON THE MAN .
Instead of her constantly turning to her husband and asking money for hair, make-up , food, clothes, sanitary pads. She can be interdependent. Yes, interdependent because lady, just because you earn your own money doesn't mean you two don't need each other. He is still your husband. You are in this together. The husband feels good when sometimes the wife says "Relax honey, I got this!" Now that is a Queen.
8. TO MODEL TO THE CHILDREN .
When mom is earning and is successful in her career or business; the son learns that women are not weak and that they can work hard just like men. The daughter learns to believe in herself and dream big dreams. 'If mum can do it, so can I' she thinks
9. TO BE AT PAR WITH HER HUSBAND .
Many husbands eventually find their housewife not as challenging, the two drift apart. That is because, as the husband works and earns, he grows in many ways professionally, socially, mentally and physically. But the housewife, all her life is largely about children, and house chores. Conversations with her are not as engaging as with the people outside who are working or in business. The wife should find something challenging to do, even if it means running an online business or selling fruits at home. As she engages in more than household matters, she grows, just like the husband is growing
10. SHE IS MORE THAN A WIFE AND A MOTHER .
A woman is capable of not just being a good wife and mother, but also a good social leader, business person, career woman, public figure, activist, scholar. She can balance it all. She has so much potential. There is more to her than being a wife and mother. She was created with a destiny to realize.

DON'T DRINK ANY ALCOHOL IF YOUR PREGNANT

Alcohol syndrome is a condition in a child that results from alcohol exposure during the mother's pregnancy. Fetal alcohol syndrome causes brain damage and growth problems . The problems caused by  alcohol syndrome vary from child to child, but defects caused by alcohol syndrome are not reversible.
        There is no amount of alcohol that's known to be safe to consume during pregnancy. If you drink during pregnancy,
You place your baby at risk of fetal alcohol syndrome.
If you suspect your child has fetal alcohol syndrome, talk to doctor as soon as possible. Early diagnosis may help to reduce problems such as learning difficulties and behavioral issues.
SYMPTOMS.
The severity of fetal alcohol syndrome symptoms varies, with some children experiencing them to a far greater degree than others. Signs and symptoms of fetal alcohol syndrome may include any mix of physical defects, intellectual or cognitive disabilities, and problems functioning and coping with daily life.
PHYSICAL DEFECTS MAY INCLUDE:
 small eyes, an exceptionally thin upper lip, a short, upturned nose, and a smooth skin surface between the nose and upper lip
Deformities of joints, limbs and fingers
Slow physical growth before and after birth
Vision difficulties or hearing problems
Small head circumference and brain size
Heart defects and problems with kidneys and bones
Brain and central nervous system problems
Problems with the brain and central nervous system may include:
*Poor coordination or balance
*Intellectual disability, learning disorders and delayed development
*Poor memory
*Trouble with attention and with processing information
*Difficulty with reasoning and problem-solving
*Difficulty identifying consequences of choices
*Poor judgment skills
*Jitteriness or hyperactivity
*Rapidly changing moods
*Social and behavioral issues
*Problems in functioning, coping and interacting with others may include:
DIFFICULT IN SCHOOL.
Trouble getting along with others
Poor social skills
Trouble adapting to change or switching from one task to another
Problems with behavior and impulse control
Poor concept of time
Problems staying on task
Difficulty planning or working toward a goal
WHEN TO SEE A DOCTOR.
If you're pregnant and can't stop drinking, ask your obstetrician, primary care doctor or mental health professional for help.
Because early diagnosis may help reduce the risk of long-term problems for children with fetal alcohol syndrome, let your child's doctor know if you drank alcohol while you were pregnant. Don't wait for problems to arise before seeking help.

PRAY AND LET GOD WORRY

flowers doesn't think of competing with the flowers next to them , it just blooms...
Don't feel bad if someone rejects you. People usually reject expensive things because they can't afford them.
 If you made a mistake it means, there's always another chance for a fresh start; for this thing we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down. Get up.
I do not know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. The ultimate in wisdom is to live in the present, plan for the future and profit from the past. I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.
There isn't any questioning the fact that some people enter your life, at the exact point of need, want or desire - it's sometimes a coincendence and most times fate, but whatever it is, I am certain it came to make me smile
God does not give you wealth(material ), He gives you the wisdom to make it and maitain it. All that you need is in you in form of a thought, a suggestion or a picture at the back of your mind. Write down those ideas, work on those ideas, the idea is a seed and one day you shall eat the fruit!

Sex is not just sex

S..x is not just going to bed ,  s...x is more of soul ties.
When you sleep with different men or ladies,
you tie your soul with theirs,
 their souls may come in different forms of darkness.
 Some of souls could possibly destroy you or delay your Blessings. Sometimes we act so strange , so weird , because of body is full of different darkness of souls.As you go chasing for girls lusting after girls ,
sleeping with different girls lusting after guys , keep this on your mind ,
  s..x is not just s..x , but a soul ties.
Having s..x with different bodies means your body has different Shadows consist of different souls, you are not you, but different people in you. Now think of this , your partner is faithful to you, but you go sleeping around and come back sleep with your partner( him/ her), that means you transferring all shadows to your faithful partner , Don't you think you are heartless? , careless or selfish by doing that?
Let's think before we do things .

No amount of condom can protect your soul . just pick one partner and make him/ her your King/ Queen , have self control and do what is right for you. you won't go early to grave.
Only mature people will understand what am saying

HERBAL REMEDY FOR NAIL FUNGUS

INGREDIENTS
4 to 5 tablespoons of baking soda
1 cup white vinegar or cider vinegar
2 liters of warm water
Paper napkins

TREATMENT
Step 1: Pour the vinegar into a bowl containing 1 liter of warm water, mix well, put your feet in and let soak for 20 minutes. After that, dry them well using the paper towels.
2.
Step 2: In another bowl mix the baking soda in a quart of warm water, soak your feet in it and leave on for 15 minutes. After remove your feet and dry with paper towels.
Do not forget to make a small gentle massage so that the products are well absorbed.
Repeat the process 2 TIMES a day to get rid of nail fungus quickly
For more efficiency, make a paste using baking soda, vinegar and a few drops of water, apply it on the affected nail, cover it with a bandage and let the treatment work all night .

DELAY IN MARRIAGE

    Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

        But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right,  but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

    With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying, 

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.

See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.

   At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.

They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
 My sister, it matters a lot.

Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?

That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

    At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1.  Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you God?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. God knows the best for everyone please.

At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.

You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.

Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

  Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35  seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?

Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.

    It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.

Change your mindset and turn to Him now, before it's too late.

Please share this message and help someone to  help someone to  help someone. ..

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23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed . Stay Blessed  

The power of MILK and GARLIC

Garlic is an amazing Ingredients that has Countless health benefit but most people avoid it a lot because of specific taste and smell. This method keep all the nutrients intact. Milk and garlic combined together may sound to you as a crazy combination, but actually it’s an amazing one and offers numerous health benefits! You should definitely try it. This food combination sounds really strange we know but, it is worth a try. Here, we’re presenting you a recipe that is called garlic milk and is a natural medicine. You should drink it warm! YOU NEED:
 500 ml of milk
10 minced garlic cloves
2-3 teaspoons of sugar
 250 ml water

METHOD: Put the water and milk in a pot and then add the garlic. Put the pot on the stove and let the mixture boil a bit. The heat must be medium and not more and you should stir all the time! Strain this and add sugar inside. Drink it warm!

 ALL THE BENEFITS OF THIS DRINK: 

1. ASTHMA  take 3 garlic cloves every day at night, relieves this problem.
2. PNEUMONIA Take milk and garlic 3 times a day and treat this.
3.  CARDIAC ISSUES This drink helps you lower the bad LDL cholesterol and stops clots from forming, so the heart health becomes much better. It will be even more effective iIf you make this with low fat or skimmed milk.
4.JAUNDICE Garlic is excellent against jaundice and toxin removal, too. The garlic activates good enzymes and the liver starts to work fine. Our liver needs sulfur in order to make the body detox and the garlic has that sulfur. This is very important for the liver and it is even better for fatty liver disease. It contains allicin, selenium too and makes more bile so the fat of the liver is lessened. If you drink milk and garlic for 5 days, the jaundice will be gone!
 5. ARTHRITIS Take this mix every day and reduce such pains or inflammation!
6. INSOMNIA The milk and garlic mixture soothes you and helps you relax more.
7. COUGH Add turmeric in this mixture and you’ve got the perfect cough cure. Make garlic, milk and turm

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO FOR THE MAN YOU ARE ENGAGED TO

Here are most of the mistakes women do tgat makes a man change his initial desire..
1. Do not cohabit with a man who has not married you. Do not live with your boyfriend in the same house. Even if he is your fiance, do not live with him in the same house. You will look too cheap, people will be seeing you as a prostitute and a useless girl.
A good name and reputation is better than anything in the world.
2. Do not be pregnant for your boyfriend. It is senseless. Avoid pregnancy if you are not married. Note that you can never use pregnancy to tie a man down. Your boyfriendM will either deny the pregnancy or he will tell you to go and abort it.
Pregnancy before marriage is not Godly and it is a shame to you and your family.
3. Avoid abortion. Abstain from sex. If there is no sex, there will be no abortion. Condom is not a guarantee at all. Sex is not food. You can live without it.
4. Do not abandon your parents and family because of one boyfriend. Sometimes love makes some people to be stupid. Don't lose your senses because of love. Be in charge of your emotion and feelings. Let your brain control your emotion. Do not allow emotion to control your brain.
5. Do not commit suicide when your boyfriend dumps you. It does not worth it. He is not the only good man in the world.
6. Do not miss your lectures/school because a man asked you to visit him. Your education/future is more important than boyfriend.
7. Do not be rude to your parents because of your boyfriend. It is very wrong.
8. Do not beg a man to marry you. Women never try this.
9. Do not release your body for a man to be beating you. Quit him immediately. A real man does not beat woman.

Purity is a must in every relationship.

MARRY A WIFE NOT A VIRGIN

Some guys think virginity makes a good wife. 

"NO" let me tell you, virginity is a pride to a woman but remember, after your first copulation, it will exist no more! Do not marry her because she is a virgin rather marry her because she has the qualities of a wife.
A good wife is a crown to her husband. Notwithstanding, virginity may be a added advantage, however, do not get carried away allowing that to be your yardstick for measuring a good wife! It is worthy of note, some ladies are virgin, not because they chose to, rather circumstances such as: parental or guidance absolute monitoring and control, stringent conditionalities and the fair of the pain prevent them. The moment they get loosed, whores are even better off them.
Meanwhile, if you hear the horrible stories of how some ladies lost their virginity, you'll almost cry for them: we've heard different stories of rape and incest. Some even lost theirs to family members at a tender age, some through harm robbery or as a domestic worker due to unavailable lack of parental care. These are circumstances beyond their control. Would you blame them?
Furthermore, womanhood is a cycle: from a DAUGHTER to a WIFE and then to a MOTHER. A badly raised daughter would definitely be a mistake as a wife and a liability to her husband no doubt about it. Whereas a properly trained and oriented daughter will grow up to become a good wife and an asset to her husband. As the popular saying, "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME"!
Conclusively, if you are single and searching bachelor, put this at the back of your mind that "marrying a virgin is a pride but does not guarantee successful marriage" and for the virgins, try and acquire the good Qualities that makes up a good wife. Do not make that pride you kept for so long becomes a waste. To all the spinsters, your character is what defines you and the type of home you'll build. Wishing you a good luck!

Top 10 secrets preparing for marriage

Secret 1

Everyone in marriage has a weakness. Take note : Only God does not have a weakness.  if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength...

Secret 2

Everyone has a  history be it good or bad. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Disrespect

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Cheating

Pride

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract in any form . It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to each of the couples must pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw , youths take note. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. 

Rasta for peace pleads with us singles  today that  let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. 

THIS IS FOR THE LADIES ALONE

Tips to keep your VAGINA clean, sweet and healthy.
As a WOMAN, keeping your Vagina healthy and sweet is extremely important. Your sexual
organs are very valuable and must be cared for.
1. A clean Vagina is very important so wash your vagina with cold water
more than you've previously done in a day. Clean the vagina every time you wee wee or after toilet because it smells all the time no matter how clean or beautiful a lady is. Make sure to clean with cold water.
2. Leaving too much hair around the vagina is not a good deal. During sex,the hair can cause cuts on the PENIS organs and condom. Also, hair around the base of the vagina can be breeding ground for boils and cause bad odour, so shave and clean. The hair around your VAGINA promotes bad smell.
3. Many women wear one underpant for the whole day or even two but for health reasons pls change your dross
4. Dirty underpants may give your vagina a permanent bad smell and a bad taste.
5. Ladies, what you eat affects the taste of your hotness or increases it. Avoid too much garlic, onion, alcohol, coffee and spicy foods. Eat fruits that are high in natural sugar like oranges, apples, mangoes and please take honey too. They all make you hot and attractive.
6. After shaving, you might have to deal with serious irritations. The Vagina doesn't need perfume to smell good so don't spray perfume around your VAGINA
7. Regular sex by a real penis, not vibrator, gives you extra vitamins in your body. Do not put anything in your vagina except a natural PENIS.(Consequences of masturbation)
8. Never pile up your panties to wash them weekly or fortnightly or monthly. Dried moisture in your panties from your vagina develops and grows bacteria and or fungus over a short period of time which hastens infection.
9.Wash panties daily and dry it in the sun. No matter how ugly they look, you bought them yourself. Take no pride in drying a lot of panties on the line and possess a fungus. click  here

THE SINCERE TRUTH ABOUT MEN:

I know  most ladies will  deny this  , especially those that have pass through hard times in a relationship most of them will say

1. All men are not the same.
2. It is not all men that cheat on their spouses.
3. Some men don't have time for women.  this is just a simple truth because happen because ladies don't create time to study their man if what there feel  for them is like wise.
4. It is not all men that like women.
5. What a man needs from his woman is respect. Just respect and obey him. He will love and take care of you.
6. Sex cannot make a man love you. If you like give him sex everyday, if he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you.
7. If you want a man to love and take care of you, treat him like a baby. Pet him.
8. Men hate a nagging wife.
9. Allow him to be in charge of the house. Allow him to head the family. Do not control him.
10. Do not try to use sex to capture his heart. It will not work. Cook delicious food, be obedient to him, be submissive. You will capture his heart.
11. Men love beautiful women. A lady should make herself look beautiful and attractive.let me go smoke
    

DON'T LET PRIDE DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE!!!!!!j

A relationship filled with proud partners and ego-filled lovers is almost certainly bound to fail.

Everyone, irrespective of gender, has pride deeply rooted in their heart, but pride destroys relationships as it breeds anger, malice and hatred.

Here are ways to deal with pride in a relationship:

Most relationships and Marriages are destroyed because of pride.

Do you know why?

Some Ladies find it so difficult to apologize to their partners when they are wrong. My dear Please try to be a peace maker even when you know you are not the one at fault. Let peace reign first. Later,one of those happy moments you use to be together, call him,Let him understand that he was wrong in what he did, I bet you, he must say "am Sorry Immediately and will even Love you more and more. As a lady, the way you want your house to be that's how it's going to be. Some Ladies will say "If he did not apologize,Let him come and touch me nahhhh... " My dear if you don't allow him,he will do it outside and last last,he will bring disease and give you. So now tell me Who Loose? Don't mind those Ladies who gives you wrong advice telling you to forget that man that he must come back to beg you. They are  "HOME BREAKERS". If they are in your shoes they will be the one to apologize first. If that man leaves you today,they will be the first person to rush him.So please be wise. Some Men always feel like it's always the duty of a woman to Apologize every time, but it's not so. You as a man supposed to apologize too whether right or wrong just to keep that happiness in your family or Relationship. I focused on ladies because in Most Cases we are the ones to loose and suffer it most especially when you are not an Independent woman.(Financially Stable) The rate of Single Mum's I see sometimes is too much and most of their marriages or relationship broke because of PRIDE. Some broke because of different other reason but pride has broken many. Please dear Ladies don't let Pride destroy your sweet and happy home or Relationship. Learn to Say "I AM SORRY " and God will always bless you as Partners. 

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BEING MENTALLY BROKE IS WORSE THAN NOT HAVING MONEY!!!!!!

After writing about mentally broke girls, I realized that some people can read but cannot understand.
Some ladies are not happy while some are happy but the fact is that, some don't even understand what Mentally broke means.
Just Look at these points below.


How do you explain it when a guy always give you some cash and out of that money you can't for one day get him anything in return to show appreciation no matter how little it is?

How do you explain this,Before You visit your guy everytime, he will send you transport to come, and not that he will give you the exact amount that will take you to his house, he will send you more than the transport so that you can have change.
Aunty,can't you for once use little change out of that Money that always remain and visit the guy you said you love?, at least for once let him know you care.
How do you explain it when a guy sends you recharge card and you will still use that same recharge card to FLASH him,then he will call you back to ask you if you have seen the card,Is it good?

Sometimes they won't even flash back  until the guy decides to call,it's unfair my dear sister.

How do you explain this, Whenever you are doing your birthday, he showers you with Gifts and present, but when it's his turn, you won't remember, he will call you to tell you that it's his birthday and you will ask him to send you recharge card so that you can call him,
Aunty make you reason with me nah,e no make sense.
How do you explain it when you always request money from the guy you love before he can touch you, or after making love with you?

Aunty are you a Sex Worker?
Must it be that moment?
How do you explain it when you have the money with you but you can't use it to do anything,Always depending on the guy to do everything for you.

My problem is that they don't add any positive impact in the guys life,Always wanting to be spent on.
Nothing Like Emotional Intelligence,Financial Intelligence or Spiritual Intelligence.

Now You understand what I mean by being MENTALLY BROKE. Mentally broke does not mean not having Money,it's worse than not having money.
I still repeat it again guys,
"STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS"
Ladies,if you find yourself in these categories,
My dear, You are MENTALLY BROKE.
Try and Change your ways.
Have a nice day....

PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE NOT WEDDING!!!!

6Good morning friends and happy start of a new week ...
Wrong marriages have ruined so many great destinies!
Many people prepare for Wedding and forget to prepare for Marriage.
That is why many Marriages fail.
My dear listen,
Wedding is not marriage,
You can have the best wedding in town but have the worst Marriage in town. So it's left for you to choose the right one for you.
Wedding only lasts for a Day,but marriage lasts Forever.
Please always remember that.
You have to be careful when choosing a Life Partner.
If it's the type who loves wedding more than marriage, my dear avoid them because they will only be preparing for wedding and forget about marriage.
There is No one who goes through pains more than a Man or woman who is Married to a wrong man or woman.

GOD HAS A FINAL SAYING IN LIFE

Read with patience

New York is 3  hours ahead of California,  but it does not make California slow.
                                                  Happy Sunday 

Ø Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job!

Ø  Someone became a CEO at 25,and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years.

Ø Someone is still single, while someone else got married.

Ø Obama retires at 55, but Trump starts at 70.

Ø Charles Nomo married at 52 and is now 96...his peers could have married at 25 and died at 50]

*Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.*

Ø People around you might seem to go ahead of you, some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.

Ø Don’t envy them or mock them. They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours! Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

*So, RELAX.*

*You’re not LATE.*

*You’re not EARLY.*

You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.  

In conclusion don't rush to get and don't be sad if things turn out to be slow.
In Gods hands time is a tool . He makes all things beautiful in His time.

*Stay blessed!!!!*

How Social Networking And Jealousy Affect Your Love Life

Lots of us use Social Networking as a convenient way of receiving information about the people in our lives we don’t call every day — and people we don’t know that well whose lives we enjoy watching from Afar.

If you’re fun of thinking, “It’s just on social media —  it really causes many problems in an adult relationship”.

” Divorce attorneys say social media flirtations are frequently cited in their cases. And this poor guy had an asthma attack supposedly prompted by seeing how many men his ex-girlfriend had friended since their breakup.

“It’s a very common, a couples’ therapist from San Diego who reported that she sometimes hears about  social media  issues on a daily basis in her office. Couples come into conflict over everything from one party reconnecting with an ex to one not mentioning the relationship on social media  at all.

And these problems aren't limited to relationships with pre-existing problems. social media presents so many challenges to committed relationships

To be clear, social media  itself isn’t to BLAMED for the demise of domestic bliss. Instead, it’s an avenue by which threats can develop if you fail to communicate about them, and one that can exacerbate problems that already exist.