1. YOU ALLOW YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO DISRESPECT YOUR WOMAN
You have failed as a Man or husband if or when you allow your family and friends disrespect your woman/wife. Any one who disrespect your woman/wife in a relationship or marriage, disrespect you. It's as simple as that. Avoid talking bad about your woman/wife in a public place so that she won't get disrespected. Don't be too quick to share the negative attitude of your woman/wife to families and friends because it will reduce her person before them. Your woman/wife issues should be handle in private or at home alone. Men should take note.
2. BEATEN UP A WOMAN/WIFE: Women are not kids. Some men are indeed a wife beater. No woman can stand a man who beat the living hell out of her often over a little misunderstanding. Beating your woman/wife diminishes the respect she had for you. It takes away all the love, affection and feelings ,thereby making you to look like a boy who don't know what relationship/marriage is all about. Why would you beat up your woman? A Man who raises or lay a hand on his wife or woman is a beast. Please men control your anger,l know women can be annoying some times. Work away when your woman upset you.
3. BEING STINGY TO HER
No woman can stand a STINGY man in a marriage or relationship. Women love their men or guys spending on them,to them it gives fulfillment and shows that the Man loves them. If you can't provide for your wife or woman,someone else will do it for you. Even when your woman is a skilled professional and works in a government offices,she still need your sweat( money). She can use her money buy anything she likes,.
Send some to her parents and maybe save a little for emergencies. Always be on a forefront as a Man to provide for the family. Ladies l hope l am making a point. (Women love men spending on them). No woman like a STINGY man.
4. CHEATING ON HER
Few guys or men cheat just to pay back,while some just for fun. Women hate a guy or a man who cheated on them. Some women sees a man who cheated in a relationship or marriage as an irresponsible compound complicated FOOL that has no regard for women. Unlike men,women are blessed with a forgiven heart. A woman can let go the hurt but it is still fresh in her memory and the wounds still heal but cheating on her after everything she has gone through with you,she will never forget it. Don't cheat on a good woman if you don't want to see the true color or beast in her. No woman can stand a cheating husband or man. Women are indeed a complex begin, but it takes a patient and understanding man to know their dos and don'ts if the relationship or marriage will go smoothly.
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