Relationships need to give a deaf ear to the external society because each and every one of us carries a cross

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A poor man always think that the rich man, made his wealth out of luck.

And the rich man believes the poor is poor, because he is lazy.

A young lady who got married very early, thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.

A man who just graduated and gets a job immediately, thinks he is smarter than others.

While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people, who lived a wayward life and probably have "occultic" husbands who sacrifices their babies.

If only the poor, knew the price the rich paid to get to the top. And if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through. None, will ever form a theory about each other.

If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success, let him mind his business. If it is easy to be rich, he wouldn't have been poor.

And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least, he should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.

If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene, you will always thank God for your life. Until you walk in people's shoes, you will never know how hard the journey is.

Help each other grow. its very important.

GO FOR COUNCILLING BEFORE MARRIAGE

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TO MEN IN MARRIAGE

I alway say any MAN demanding for respect or submission from a woman is undoubtedly not doing something right. A man can never tell me he is playing his role as a man and she is not reciprocating. My brother I will tell you fat lie.

Even in de society wen all men are gathered as long as your a man who is not meeting up to standard no one even your fellow men won't respect you my brother. Submission mean respect so why come home to kill your innocent wife with your chant of uselessness

go work , huzzle and provide your respect and i tell you submissiveness from a woman will come naturally

Respect is earned not demanded.

TO WOMEN IN MARRIAGE

Women too we know are not small. Women should married a man and not a boy. Not just any man but a man that  has been providing, playing his role from the onset as a MAN. Courtship has a very big role before marriage, not starting hot hot now and when things are not going well for him now you no longer want to respect and submit to him...

you are a disgrace to woman hood my sister because if u were a wise woman that called man or husband won't have crumbled you in de first place without u lifting him up.

Marriage is a journey before you embark on needs adequate preparation, councilling and mentorship.. 

Wish you a pappy marriage life or preparation for marriage.

Discribing a banana to HOLINESS

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Once a Pastor was preaching about holiness inside AND out. A brother interrupted the Pastor and asked this question: 

" When you eat a banana,  what do you eat? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The Pastor answered him, "the inside." The brother responded to him, 

"so God is more concerned with what is on the inside (the heart) than what is on the outside (appearance). 

The Pastor immediately received a word from God and asked the brother this question,

 "when you go to buy bananas,  What do you notice first? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The brother said, 

 "the outside." 

The Pastor replied, 

"because Holiness IS inside AND out.  Having a clean heart is important.  But dressing as children of God is also important. "