Tuesday, December 13, 2022

Ladies pay attention to what you wear


Are you worried why once a man meets you face to face he nolonger picks your calls?

Are you thinking you are too beautiful nor educated or have that charisma the he needs or he is searching for?

Why do you worry all around say your friends, relatives and mates are getting married while all you do is keep attending their bridal, baby shower etc??




Let no one lie to you, men are moved more by what they see and certain attires will drop the love or affection he has for you from grace to grass and let me say this loud, men hardly tell you why they disqualify you, they just ignore and close the chapter.

Now some will say some men love 😻😻 it’s a lie, responsible men are looking at what he will love to see under his roof the rest of his life, not rings nor chains at abnormal locations.

Preparing yourself for marriage is not bread and butter my beautiful sisters.

Before you jump from one pulpit to the other praying for marital chains and yokes to be broken, first of untie the one you took your own hands and tie. Parable for the wise.

I come in peace as I am led.

#Let Love Lead

Saturday, December 10, 2022

HOW CAN I MAKE A GOOD FRIEND OR FRIENDS?




"If I'm angry, I need someone to vent to. If I'm sad, I want someone to tell me it's going to get better. If I'm happy, I want to share that with someone. To me, friends are a necessity in friendship"

It's been said that 
little children need playmates while adolescents need friends.





A playmate is someone who keeps you company

A friend is someone who also shares your values.

Even the bible states that " a true companion is loving all the time and is a brother that is born for when there's distress" (Proverbs 17:17)


That's probably describing the kind of friendship than you found as a child at the playground! 

Fact: As you progress toward adulthood, you need friends who
1. Have admirable qualities
2. Live by praiseworthy standards
3. Have a positive influence on you
4. Have a GOD fearing concience 

Question : How can you find friends who fit that profile?

LOVE, RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING

A WOMAN AS A LIABILITY Vs A WOMAN AS AN ASSET.