LOVE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING ( L-RAM)

A relationship breakdown happens when the connection between two people deteriorates to the point where the relationship can no longer function healthily or satisfyingly be it emotionally, physically or both. Here are some detailed common causes: 1. Poor Communication:  Misunderstandings and lack of open dialogue create resentment amongst couples. When two couples or partners in a relationship are avoiding difficult conversations or failing to express needs can reduce trust amongst themselves and  over time, small grievances build up into major conflicts. 2. Lack of Trust: in every relationship, i nfidelity, lies or broken promises damage trust from both partners in love. Even minor breaches can accumulate, leading to emotional distance. Trust in a relationship often cause jealousy, suspicion and insecurity. 3. Unresolved Conflicts : in most cases, a rguments that aren’t properly addressed can fester and later avoiding conflict which may seem peaceful but allows resentment to ...

“A man must love, for without love, life is but a shadow.” because  “A man must love, not only in words but in actions that heals and uplift.”   Here are some TOP 9 reasons why a man must love blending,  emotional social and personally.   1. Emotional Achievements: Love provides deep emotional satisfaction, helping a man feel connected, understood and valued in a home. 2. Self Growth:   Loving someone encourages self-reflection, patience and overall the development of empathy. 3. Companionship : Love brings meaningful companionship, reducing loneliness and creating shared life experiences amongst each other. 4. Purpose and Encouragement: Lovin g someone can give life direction and inspire a man to strive for his best self because he is blessed with a woman or a wife.  5. Strengthens Vulnerability : in any successful relationship, Love allows a man to open up emotionally, breaking societal pressures to always “be strong.” 6. Mutual assistance : Lov...

Money as it's name implies, CAN NOT buy real or genuine love but it can influence a  relationship in powerful ways as we will  discuss below. ☆ Money Can Create Opportunities : Money is wealth, this can facilitate experiences, travel, dinners, gifts .that bring people closer together. All this is not done by LOVE but MONEY.  ☆  Money Can Provide stability : Money can reduce stress and enable partners to focus on emotional connection rather than concentrating on survival. ☆ Money Attracts attention : Money can bring people close to you most especially in cultures where wealth is associated with status, power or success. Money does this smoothly.  On the other hand, Money also has some limitations. ☆ Money can NOT Buy emotional intimacy: That word LOVE requires vulnerability, trust and mutual respect none of which are for sale . ☆ Money Ensure loyalty  : Someone may stay for the lifestyle, but that’s not the same as staying for you . ☆ Money Replace Compatib...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits. If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realise that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him. 1 NARROW-MINDEDNESS : The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you. That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell. 2 HATES ANIMALS : Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous even reading the...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Many men make the mistake of wanting their wives/women to be like them, forgetting we were not created with the same raw materials. A man was formed from the dust but a woman was made from bone, hence we cannot behave or think alike. An average woman wants to be teased, cared for and pampered. Even if she's horny she still wants her man to ask her for s..x, this makes her feel like a woman. Her frequent sickness is not her fault, it is the nature of her body. You must learn to live with this truth. In fact, she wants you to pity her and give her special care when she's sick. Stop getting angry anytime she complain to you about one pain or the other. Sometimes the pain may not be as much as she presents it but she love to act that drama to get your attention. Her need for attention is really a function of nature and not because she wants to disturb you. She wants a man who will listen to all her jagons and ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS AN ASSET. 1. Morning Dear, hope you had a wonderful night. How are you today? Wake up and get ready for work. Don't forget to send your application for the job I told you about yesterday. 2. Yes Darling, I miss you so much, I hope you are enjoying your day, I am heading out for lunch. Talk later. Take care of yourself. Love you ! 3.Yes dear I am at the shop doing grocery for the house, next time I am coming with you. 4. Don't put yourself under pressure my love, I know you will achieve your goal. You have my full support. 5. Don't forget to say your prayers by 9am, 12noon and 3pm. Remember our strength is in God. Call me when you are ready for the prayers so we pray together online. 6. Hello dear, are you back from work. How was your day. .. Hope it was not stressful? 7. Good evening dear, i just wanted to call to find out how your weekend is going. . WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blog One of the mistakes single men make is being in a relationship with a lady because of her beauty. Actually, a man is attracted to a lady chiefly because of what he sees. If you like what you see, then you can move to the way she thinks, her beliefs, her faith, visions and philosophy of life. Sadly, some men however make the mistake of equating a beautiful body with a beautiful mind, heart and spirit. See, If a lady does not posses character, her beauty will just not suffice. What qualifies a woman to be termed "Good Enough" for a man is her CHARACTER. Let me shock you a bit. Do you know that there are beautiful prostitutes, but have you ever met a sane man who proudly introduced a prostitute as his fiancèe?  I know what you're thinking right now. You're probably muttering the regular parlance, "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". Again. Don't be deceived into the school of thought ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot "Marriage sweet, marriage sweet"   Let us try to discuss the following points about married couples.  1. Your partner may be a snoring type: incase you hate snoring and maybe your destiny is to marry one, start doing vigil, get a pet pig 🐖 by you every night so that you become use to it 😅 hope you have some popcorn beside you?  2. Your partner may be scatter: you know, relationship is home for preparation. Forget the days you visit him and everything is neat. Marry him first and tell us the story. 😅 3. Your partner may squize the toothpaste his own way: two ways to handle this, start training on squising the toothpaste both in the middle and at the end so whatever you meet, that's fine. 4. Mood swingers: not Everytime he is likely to have a smiling face. If she is that type, get to know what turns him up and attack her there. 5. He is a man or woman of the people : if you are a reserved and...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Are you worried why once a man meets you face to face he nolonger picks your calls? Are you thinking you are too beautiful nor educated or have that charisma the he needs or he is searching for? Why do you worry all around say your friends, relatives and mates are getting married while all you do is keep attending their bridal, baby shower etc?? Let no one lie to you, men are moved more by what they see and certain attires will drop the love or affection he has for you from grace to grass and let me say this loud, men hardly tell you why they disqualify you, they just ignore and close the chapter. Now some will say some men love 😻😻 it’s a lie, responsible men are looking at what he will love to see under his roof the rest of his life, not rings nor chains at abnormal locations. Preparing yourself for marriage is not bread and butter my beautiful sisters. Before you jump from one pulpit to the other praying for m...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot "If I'm angry, I need someone to vent to. If I'm sad, I want someone to tell me it's going to get better. If I'm happy, I want to share that with someone. To me, friends are a necessity in friendship" It's been said that  little children need playmates while adolescents need friends. A playmate is someone who keeps you company A friend is someone who also shares your values. Even the bible states that " a true companion is loving all the time and is a brother that is born for when there's distress" (Proverbs 17:17) That's probably describing the kind of friendship than you found as a child at the playground!  Fact: As you progress toward adulthood, you need friends who 1. Have admirable qualities 2. Live by praiseworthy standards 3. Have a positive influence on you 4. Have a GOD fearing concience  Question : How can you find friends who fit that profile?

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Ladies should always try their possible best when in marriage or a deep relationship by: 1. Call your man/husband by a pet name 2. Allow your man/husband exercise his authority as the head of the family. 3. Do not challenge your man/husband when he is hurt. 4. Be silent when your man/husband is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved that way that annoyed him. 5. Be quick to tell your man/husband "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his orgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does. 6. Speak good of your man/husband before his friends and siblings. 7. Honor your man/husband's mother 8. Insist that your man/husband buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents 9. Surprise your man/husband with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food. 10. D...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot If you  have a serious chest pains and you have tried different types of drugs or herbs to cure it, and the pains still remain, then this plant or leaf is the answer. Go very early in the morning and uproot plenty of this plant.   Procedure:  Cut out only the roots of it and throw away the leaves and others.  put all the plenty roots of this plant in a mortar and pound it all together after this, soak in a clean water of about 4 litre full and keep it to ferment for 24 hours. Start drinking a glass cup of it morning and evening for a week, you will never have that chest pain again.  Don't forget to wash the root of every sand. Another way also is to get the root of this plant, wash it very well and boil it with water then sieve it and pour the water inside a 4liter container and take it a glass cup early in the morning and evening. It works like magic..

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot ​​MAXIMUM EXTREME RANGE OF SXE IS 13 MINUTES For married men and women only. Stay away from Tramadol Men Please, stop killing yourselves with aphrodisiacs ( Enhancing  drugs). Depending on what side of the sxe duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes is good. But, according to a 2008 study of United States & Canadian sxe therapists, sxe that is  “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to five minutes, and some extreme condition is seven to 13 minutes. It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is unusual. So, why then has the issue of sex in marriages become a hard nut to crack. Today all medications on the market has it written on their labels: s... xual weakness. This is giving ladies the impression that the maximum Five minutes of sxe isn't enough making them pressure the men to seek for supporting aids (aphrodisiac). The youth are dying early because of...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Pineapple leaves can thus do wonders to your health, and before you ponder further go and grab some boiled water of pineapple leaves to stay fit and healthy PINEAPPLE LEAVES Do not waste it any more, why complain of  inflammatory pains and waist pain. M ake tea from pineapple leaves it. It wipes all pains in seconds, heals ulcer and cough too. It nourishes the body and it is better than poisoning your system with capsules, tramadol pain reliever  that do endanger life and cause ulcer. Just boil and drink . Pineapple Leaves contains 👉 Calcium oxalate 👉Bromelin enzyme 👉Pectic substantial 👉Fiber 👉Cellulose 👉Pentose Heals  Nose bleeding For those of you who experience frequent bleeding from nose because of fatigue or stress, you can cure it by drinking boiled water pineapple leaves regularly. To make it a bit tastier, you can add some honey to it. Drives away weakness Pineapple leaves are also effe...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Self-respect is knowing you are worthy and treating yourself accordingly. Respecting yourself is the first step toward understanding you deserve love, consideration, and opportunities like everyone else. Workout the following for a start. 1. Stop begging people all of the time. 2. Stop looking for who is not looking for you. 3. Don't be a liability. 4. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours. 5. Reduce how you visit some people especially when they don't show concern. 6. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy. 7. Stop entertaining gossips. 8. Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth. 9. Be an achiever by getting busy with your goal. 10. Respect time. 11. Don't stay in a relationship where you are constantly disrespected. 12. Be scared sometimes. 13. Be a giver more than a receiver. 14. Learn how to spend money on yourself that how people...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot DID YOU KNOW THAT THIS 3 ITEMS CAN DO WONDERS?   1. BITTER COLA 2.  BITTER LEAF 3.  MALT. 1. It cures sexually transmitted disease, staphylococcus aureus 2. It cure typhoid fever by killing the bacterium, Salmonella typhi. 3It is effective in treating herpes and chlaymdia 4. It is effective in eradicating infertility in man and woman. 5. It prevents prostate cancer. and other types of cancer. 6.It treats stomach ache, fever, bloating and constipation. 7. It prevents respiratory illnesses, such as fever, asthma, cough, bronchitis, etc. Preparation Get 7 bitter kola and a handful of bitter leaf.  Please grind with stone and don't blend it.  When grinding, ensure you don't make it too watery, just add little water. Add a bottle of malt to the mixture.  The function of the malt is to allow for proper dispersion by providing a liquid medium that the solids (bitter kola and bitter leaf) can...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot 1. If your kids dress naked on the street and you call it fashion or civilization.  2. If your kids in primary and secondary schools have their personal andriod phone in the name of doing assignment. Get ready to raise rotten children.  3. During birthday you dress you female child  half naked and post on social media expecting positive comments. Hmmmm. 3. Your kids have access to any channel of their choice in your television even when you are not present.  Be sure that you will raise vangabonds, i repeat vangabonds.   4. Your child is doing something wrong and no body can correct him/ her because you will always fight for him. Don't worry Govt will soon parade him/her on media.  5. A teacher corrected your kid in school and he/she cried home to report to you. You organise a protest to the school for the teacher to be sacked. You no well andriod parent? 6. You went on social media d...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot For those Christians WHO are still holding to JEZEBEL properties, for your information those things are idols.  For those who think that it doesn't matter what you wear or attached to your body.  That God only look the Heart, my friend you cannot deceive God because what you put on defines your inside, The way you 👗 dresses will determine how they will address you.  HEAVEN IS A HOLY PLACE,  THERE'S NO SAINT THAT LOOK S..XY IN HEAVEN THEY ARE ALL PURE AND HOLY Christians using the properties of JEZEBEL or satanic influence products make you as idols worshiper in sight of God,  Give away every properties of JEZEBELS and cleans yourself from demonic pollution. Those things defiled you before God REPENT and plead for the blood of Jesus to clean you from satanic pollution, I know most of you will feel bad about This post or thinking I am judging, No it's better you know the truth because only t...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits. If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realise that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him. 1  NARROW-MINDEDNESS : The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you. That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell. 2 HATES ANIMALS : Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous e...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot 1) Your attention 2) Your Care 3) Your Understanding altitude 4) A hard working man and your 🍆 (Hahahaha you laughed right? It was a joke) 5) She wants your LOVE. Today's generation feels like relationship is all about material things that's why they can sell themselves to men worth to be call their grandpa simply because they need I-phone, money and to live a luxurious life. Woman reshape your life and you will enjoy,