WHEN MARRIAGE TURNS TO A MISTAKE.

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

Most times when a marriage is in trouble , people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on. 

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room. 

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is s

een in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “So as you make your bed so shall uoulie on it”. 

Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

 It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,but you are the mistake.

Your habit is the mistake

Your character is the mistake

Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.

Talking about Bitterness.

 Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake. 

So get up now and  build your marriage because it is not a mistake. Divorce or separation are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.

I pray let the Almighty GOD bless all marriages. Amen.

LET'S SEND THIS TO ALL OUR CHILDREN (MARRIED OR YET TO). IT WILL SURELY AMEND A HOME.

💕💕💕💕💕

CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

Cheating is not only having s..x with another person who is not your wife/husband, husbands and wives should take special note.

Doing any of this things listed below, you are considered a cheat to your partner.  

1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband.

2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife.

3. Sharing s...x jokes with a person who is not your spouse.

4. Deleting messages which you don't want your spouse to read.

5. Avoid answering some calls in the presence of your spouse or stepping aside to answer calls.

6. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognize.

7. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa

8. Exposing Your body in a dress for others to see.

9. You complain about your partner to someone else.

10. Having a secret friend.

Don't cheat, if you are unhappy just leave.

WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE SOMEONE TO DO TO YOU, DON'T DO IT TO OTHERS. 

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.

HOW TO SOLVE YOUR LIFE, MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

Whether You Know This or Not, Everybody Is Facing his or her own individual  problem be it in marriage or relationship .

Problems in any affair or relationship Are Not Peculiar to You or Any Single Individual in This World, Everybody Is Facing One or Two Challenges in Their Marriages, life or Relationships. 

How You Handle Your Problems Is What Determines the Outcome and Whether You Will Move Forward in Life or Move Backward. So think twice in any decision youare about to emback on. 

Your Problem, No Matter How Big or Small It May Be, Has Some Profits for You and your relationship. When You Learn How to Solve It and Act , That Is When You Will Get the Profits. 

Discover individual techniques on How to Solve Your Problems and Make Profits from Them and avoid telling your friends  or colleagues every small misunderstanding or good future plans you got with your wife or man. 

UNTOLD SECRETS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

1. S...x doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360 degree on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being s...xy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. S...x can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, S...x is a product of love, love is not a product of S...x.

7. S...x can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

MEDICAL FITNESS AND PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspo

MEDICAL FITNESS BLOOD PRESSURE

120/80 --  Normal

130/85 --Normal  (Control)

140/90 --  High

150/95 --  V.High

           PULSE

72  per minute (standard)

60 --- 80 p.m. (Normal)

40 -- 180  p.m.(abnormal)

------TEMPERATURE----------

98.4 F    (Normal)

99.0 F Above  (Fever)

Notethat

Know your genotype before you say yes to that handsome guy or to that beautiful lady whom you wish to spend the rest of your life with.

Genotype & It's Appropriate Suitor

AA + AA = Excellent

AA + AS = Good

AA + SS = Fair

AS + AS = Bad

AS + SS = Very Bad

SS + SS = Extremely Bad (In fact, don't try it)

#SickleCellAwareness

BLOOD GROUP COMPATIBILITY

What’s Your Type and how common is it?

O+       1 in 3        37.4% (Most common)

A+        1 in 3        35.7%

B+        1 in 12        8.5%

AB+     1 in 29        3.4%

O-        1 in 15        6.6%

A-        1 in 16        6.3%

B-        1 in 67        1.5%

AB-     1 in 167        .6%  (Rarest)

Compatible Blood Types

O- can receive O-

O+ can receive O+, O-

A- can receive A-, O-

A+ can receive A+, A-, O+, O-

B- can receive B-, O-

B+ can receive B+, B-, O+, O-

AB- can receive AB-, B-, A-, O-

AB+ can receive AB+, AB-, B+, B-, A+,  A-,  O+,  O-

This is an important message which can save a life. A life could be saved.

What is your blood group ?

Share the fantastic information..

EFFECT OF WATER              

 We Know Water is 

       important but never 

       knew about the 

       Special Times one 

       has to drink it.. !

       ♯Did you  ?

  Drinking Water at the 

       Right Time  

       Maximizes its 

       effectiveness on the 

       Human Body;

         1 Glass of Water 

              after waking up -

              helps to 

              activate internal 

              organs..

         1 Glass of Water 

              30 Minutes   

              before a Meal - 

              helps digestion..

        1 Glass of Water 

              before taking a 

              Bath  - helps 

              lower your blood 

              pressure.

        1 Glass of Water 

              before going to 

              Bed -  avoids 

              Stroke  or Heart 

CHRISTIANITY AND PRAYER

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

A woman was once asked a young girl,

What do you "gain" from praying to God regularly?

The young girl replied:

Usually ′′ I don't earn anything ", but rather ′′ I lose things ".

And she quoted everything she lost praying to God regularly:

I lost my pride.

I lost my arrogance.

I lost greed.

I lost my urge.

I lost ′′ my ′′ anger.

I lost the lust.

I lost the pleasure of lying.

I lost the taste of sin.

I lost impatience, despair, and

discouragement.

At time, so of us or we pray, not to gain something, but to lose things that don't allow us to grow spiritually.

Prayer educates, strengthens, and heals.

Prayer is the channel that connects us directly to God." Never stop praying. Its the master key!!!

DON’T LET FAMILIARITY ROB YOU FROM YOUR BLESSINGS

• Love,relationship analysis and mentoring
• Men Vs Women forum
• Blogspot

Scriptural readings I think will .Better our understanding that's why I had to go this far bringing up the following points. 

Matthew 13:57 

And they were offended in him. But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, save in his own country, and in his own house. 

Matthew 13:58 

And he did not many mighty works there because of their unbelief

Jesus did many mighty works wherever he went. He healed the sick, raised the dead, provided miraculous food etc... but just couldn’t do much in his own town all because they had no regard for him. They knew him to be the “carpenter’s son, the son of Mary, they knew his brothers and sisters 

(Mark 6:3).

Many times we lose relationships that were meant to save us all because we get too familiar with them. So we take them for granted. How difficult it is for a wife to believe her husband’s anointing or even his brothers and sisters. Most times mothers have great regard for the calling of their children, and I don’t know why, but you see the brothers and sisters, those ones are hoodlums.

In your place of work, in your line of business, in school, all around you, value people and don’t let over familiarity make you joke or take for granted people who were meant to favour you. Respect them, honor them, hold them in high esteem. Yes they may sometimes come down to your level and humble themselves in relating with you, they may even be vulnerable and lose their guards with you, don’t take that as an occasion to speak to them anyhow or let your mind count them as common. Your help is still in their hands.

Often they might not even be very important. Just treat everyone you come across with respect. Even a maid can save an entire family. Whenever you see any human being, see the image of God in them. And then maybe you’d have more regard for them. God won’t come down from heaven to help you, he’d use people. GOD bless you, please comment and share the message.