HOW TO EARN SELF RESPECT AUTOMATICALLY.

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Self-respect is knowing you are worthy and treating yourself accordingly.

Respecting yourself is the first step toward understanding you deserve love, consideration, and opportunities like everyone else. Workout the following for a start.

1. Stop begging people all of the time.

2. Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

3. Don't be a liability.

4. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

5. Reduce how you visit some people especially when they don't show concern.

6. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

7. Stop entertaining gossips.

8. Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

9. Be an achiever by getting busy with your goal.

10. Respect time.

11. Don't stay in a relationship where you are constantly disrespected.

12. Be scared sometimes.

13. Be a giver more than a receiver.

14. Learn how to spend money on yourself that how people will spend on you.

15. Don't go to where you are not invited and when invited don't overstay your welcome.

16. Treat people exactly the way they deserved.

17. Except they owe you money, two calls ATTEMPTS is enough if they value you they will call you back.

18. Be good at what you do. Be the best you can be.

19. Don't envy people.

20. Always believe in yourself.

ZERO WORRIES!!   ZERO STRESS!!  ZERO COMPETITION...

It cures sexually transmitted disease

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DID YOU KNOW THAT THIS 3 ITEMS CAN DO WONDERS?

 

1. BITTER COLA

2.  BITTER LEAF

3.  MALT.

1. It cures sexually transmitted disease, staphylococcus aureus

2. It cure typhoid fever by killing the bacterium, Salmonella typhi.

3It is effective in treating herpes and chlaymdia

4. It is effective in eradicating infertility in man and woman.

5. It prevents prostate cancer. and other types of cancer.

6.It treats stomach ache, fever, bloating and constipation.

7. It prevents respiratory illnesses, such as fever, asthma, cough, bronchitis, etc.

Preparation

Get 7 bitter kola and a handful of bitter leaf. 

Please grind with stone and don't blend it.

 When grinding, ensure you don't make it too watery, just add little water.

Add a bottle of malt to the mixture. 

The function of the malt is to allow for proper dispersion by providing a liquid medium that the solids (bitter kola and bitter leaf) can be dispersed in.

When you mix with malt, you will then have a homogenous solution which is ready for consumption.

USAGE

You don't have to use a cup, look for a tea spoon and take twice daily. 

In the morning before eating and at night before bedtime.

HOW A PARENT CAN KNOW HE FAILED AS A PARENT IN BRING UP THE YOUNGER ONCES OR KIDS

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1. If your kids dress naked on the street and you call it fashion or civilization. 

2. If your kids in primary and secondary schools have their personal andriod phone in the name of doing assignment. Get ready to raise rotten children. 

3. During birthday you dress you female child  half naked and post on social media expecting positive comments. Hmmmm.

3. Your kids have access to any channel of their choice in your television even when you are not present.  Be sure that you will raise vangabonds, i repeat vangabonds.

 

4. Your child is doing something wrong and no body can correct him/ her because you will always fight for him. Don't worry Govt will soon parade him/her on media. 

5. A teacher corrected your kid in school and he/she cried home to report to you. You organise a protest to the school for the teacher to be sacked. You no well andriod parent?

6. You went on social media defending your child for what everyone knows that he did wrong. Hmm your mumu never do?

 7. The father/ mother is correcting a child and you are there shouting please don't kill him for me ohh. I beg shift 😄😄😄.

8. You are giving a child of less than ten years old pocket money and say is for your weekend. I tell you, they will soon start visiting banks to enable them raise money for their Xmas and Salah celebration. 

9. You are expecting your child to become the bread winner of your home at less than 18 years old. The gun powder you are cooking will soon explode.

10. Your have the means to sponsor your children in school  but you told them school is a scam. Weldone 

11. Insulting your spouse in the presence of your kids. Calling all manner of names. Continue that seed you are planting. It will soon grow.

12. You bribe the school for your ward to gain admission, you do well, but watch out for his final results. 

13. A girl of 15 years in your house cannot cook nor wash her clothes by herself because there is an house girl in the house. Get ready to give him house girl when she is getting married. 

14.  Your child refuse going to church on service days in the name of I went to visit friends or busy with something else, and you kept quiet. 

Don't worry you won't be quiet at old age. 

15. You are pushing your children to just get  married not withstanding their interest. Just because you want to have grand children. Prepare a room to receive your divorcee. 

16. You want your children to read a course of your choice in the university, it doesn't matter if they can cope or not. 

Hmmmm 

Christians, JEZEBEL and Idols Worship

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For those Christians WHO are still holding to JEZEBEL properties, for your information those things are idols. 

For those who think that it doesn't matter what you wear or attached to your body.

 That God only look the Heart, my friend you cannot deceive God because what you put on defines your inside, The way you 👗 dresses will determine how they will address you. 

HEAVEN IS A HOLY PLACE, 

THERE'S NO SAINT THAT LOOK S..XY IN HEAVEN THEY ARE ALL PURE AND HOLY

Christians using the properties of JEZEBEL or satanic influence products make you as idols worshiper in sight of God, 

Give away every properties of JEZEBELS and cleans yourself from demonic pollution.

Those things defiled you before God REPENT and plead for the blood of Jesus to clean you from satanic pollution,

I know most of you will feel bad about This post or thinking I am judging, No it's better you know the truth because only the truth will set you free, 

No one with JEZEBELS properties will Enter Heaven because they are idols in God sight,

Every woman is beautiful without makeup, don't allow Devil to deceive you, 

makeup makes you look fake and lost the images of God in you.

Anything you value and you cannot give up for the sake of Christ and Heaven is idolatry, 

 Ephesians 4:22   That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;

2 Timothy 4:3   For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;

Galatians 5:24   And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

1 Peter 1:14   As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance:

1 Timothy  2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;  2:10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

  

1 John  2:15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.  2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.  2:17 And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

          A word is Enough for the wise,

 remember tomorrow might be too late seek God now that you still have the opportunity to do so, 

 God bless every holy womens all over the world

Five (5) Secret Habits You Should Let Him Go And Stop Thinking of Marriage

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So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits.

If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realise that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him.

1 NARROW-MINDEDNESS:

The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare.

You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.

That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell.

2 HATES ANIMALS:

Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous even reading the phrase ‘hates animals’? Who on earth hates animals? Nobody does; that is the answer. So if he does not like animals without any good reasons like allergies etc and makes you choose between he and your pet, always choose your pet.

Not having fondness of them is fine but literally wanting to be away from them because ‘they are animals’ shows great lack of empathy. You will be living with a cruel human animal if you decide to marry him.

3 THE RELATIONSHIP RULES MEAN NOTHING TO HIM:

He likes to play wild, and it is not a good sign. You tell to not do something and he does exactly the same. Not only is that disrespecting you but it is completely disregarding the relationship rules.

Every relationship has some ground rules that need to be followed naturally by both the partners but if he goes off the line again and again without ever paying heed to your concerns about them, he is totally not worth marrying. Absolute disrespect should never be appreciated or given a second chance.

4 BREAKS PROMISES:

A little mistake or a sometimes forgetful mind can be excused and even a big promise, if broken once in a blue moon, can be forgiven too but if the frequency of promise breaking increases visibly then it is time for some cleaning and washing.

If he nods vigorously while making promises and easily breaks those only days later, it obviously means that he is making a fool out of you. That is not a good relationship to be in so reject that promise-breaker and find a keeper.

5 GIVES YOU SECONDARY TREATMENT:

It gets messy when one of the two people is more into the relationship than the other one. It begins to fall apart since it is all about giving, taking, sharing and receiving, just like Joey said.

So if you are the one giving your best to the relationship while he sleeps peacefully and does nothing at all, it means that you do not mean to him what he means to you.

There is no point taking such an empty connection along so do not marry the guy who gives you secondary treatment when you deserve to be the first priority.

Five (5) Things a woman desire from her partner

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1) Your attention

2) Your Care

3) Your Understanding altitude

4) A hard working man and your 🍆

(Hahahaha you laughed right? It was a joke)

5) She wants your LOVE.

Today's generation feels like relationship is all about material things that's why they can sell themselves to men worth to be call their grandpa simply because they need Iphone, money and to live a luxurious life.

Woman reshape your life and you will enjoy,

WHEN MARRIAGE TURNS TO A MISTAKE.

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Most times when a marriage is in trouble , people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on. 

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room. 

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is s

een in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “So as you make your bed so shall uoulie on it”. 

Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

 It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,but you are the mistake.

Your habit is the mistake

Your character is the mistake

Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.

Talking about Bitterness.

 Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake. 

So get up now and  build your marriage because it is not a mistake. Divorce or separation are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.

I pray let the Almighty GOD bless all marriages. Amen.

LET'S SEND THIS TO ALL OUR CHILDREN (MARRIED OR YET TO). IT WILL SURELY AMEND A HOME.

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