DON'T LET PRIDE DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE!!!!!!j

A relationship filled with proud partners and ego-filled lovers is almost certainly bound to fail.

Everyone, irrespective of gender, has pride deeply rooted in their heart, but pride destroys relationships as it breeds anger, malice and hatred.

Here are ways to deal with pride in a relationship:

Most relationships and Marriages are destroyed because of pride.

Do you know why?

Some Ladies find it so difficult to apologize to their partners when they are wrong. My dear Please try to be a peace maker even when you know you are not the one at fault. Let peace reign first. Later,one of those happy moments you use to be together, call him,Let him understand that he was wrong in what he did, I bet you, he must say "am Sorry Immediately and will even Love you more and more. As a lady, the way you want your house to be that's how it's going to be. Some Ladies will say "If he did not apologize,Let him come and touch me nahhhh... " My dear if you don't allow him,he will do it outside and last last,he will bring disease and give you. So now tell me Who Loose? Don't mind those Ladies who gives you wrong advice telling you to forget that man that he must come back to beg you. They are  "HOME BREAKERS". If they are in your shoes they will be the one to apologize first. If that man leaves you today,they will be the first person to rush him.So please be wise. Some Men always feel like it's always the duty of a woman to Apologize every time, but it's not so. You as a man supposed to apologize too whether right or wrong just to keep that happiness in your family or Relationship. I focused on ladies because in Most Cases we are the ones to loose and suffer it most especially when you are not an Independent woman.(Financially Stable) The rate of Single Mum's I see sometimes is too much and most of their marriages or relationship broke because of PRIDE. Some broke because of different other reason but pride has broken many. Please dear Ladies don't let Pride destroy your sweet and happy home or Relationship. Learn to Say "I AM SORRY " and God will always bless you as Partners. 

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BEING MENTALLY BROKE IS WORSE THAN NOT HAVING MONEY!!!!!!

After writing about mentally broke girls, I realized that some people can read but cannot understand.
Some ladies are not happy while some are happy but the fact is that, some don't even understand what Mentally broke means.
Just Look at these points below.


How do you explain it when a guy always give you some cash and out of that money you can't for one day get him anything in return to show appreciation no matter how little it is?

How do you explain this,Before You visit your guy everytime, he will send you transport to come, and not that he will give you the exact amount that will take you to his house, he will send you more than the transport so that you can have change.
Aunty,can't you for once use little change out of that Money that always remain and visit the guy you said you love?, at least for once let him know you care.
How do you explain it when a guy sends you recharge card and you will still use that same recharge card to FLASH him,then he will call you back to ask you if you have seen the card,Is it good?

Sometimes they won't even flash back  until the guy decides to call,it's unfair my dear sister.

How do you explain this, Whenever you are doing your birthday, he showers you with Gifts and present, but when it's his turn, you won't remember, he will call you to tell you that it's his birthday and you will ask him to send you recharge card so that you can call him,
Aunty make you reason with me nah,e no make sense.
How do you explain it when you always request money from the guy you love before he can touch you, or after making love with you?

Aunty are you a Sex Worker?
Must it be that moment?
How do you explain it when you have the money with you but you can't use it to do anything,Always depending on the guy to do everything for you.

My problem is that they don't add any positive impact in the guys life,Always wanting to be spent on.
Nothing Like Emotional Intelligence,Financial Intelligence or Spiritual Intelligence.

Now You understand what I mean by being MENTALLY BROKE. Mentally broke does not mean not having Money,it's worse than not having money.
I still repeat it again guys,
"STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS"
Ladies,if you find yourself in these categories,
My dear, You are MENTALLY BROKE.
Try and Change your ways.
Have a nice day....

PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE NOT WEDDING!!!!

6Good morning friends and happy start of a new week ...
Wrong marriages have ruined so many great destinies!
Many people prepare for Wedding and forget to prepare for Marriage.
That is why many Marriages fail.
My dear listen,
Wedding is not marriage,
You can have the best wedding in town but have the worst Marriage in town. So it's left for you to choose the right one for you.
Wedding only lasts for a Day,but marriage lasts Forever.
Please always remember that.
You have to be careful when choosing a Life Partner.
If it's the type who loves wedding more than marriage, my dear avoid them because they will only be preparing for wedding and forget about marriage.
There is No one who goes through pains more than a Man or woman who is Married to a wrong man or woman.

GOD HAS A FINAL SAYING IN LIFE

Read with patience

New York is 3  hours ahead of California,  but it does not make California slow.
                                                  Happy Sunday 

Ø Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job!

Ø  Someone became a CEO at 25,and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years.

Ø Someone is still single, while someone else got married.

Ø Obama retires at 55, but Trump starts at 70.

Ø Charles Nomo married at 52 and is now 96...his peers could have married at 25 and died at 50]

*Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.*

Ø People around you might seem to go ahead of you, some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.

Ø Don’t envy them or mock them. They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours! Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

*So, RELAX.*

*You’re not LATE.*

*You’re not EARLY.*

You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.  

In conclusion don't rush to get and don't be sad if things turn out to be slow.
In Gods hands time is a tool . He makes all things beautiful in His time.

*Stay blessed!!!!*

How Social Networking And Jealousy Affect Your Love Life

Lots of us use Social Networking as a convenient way of receiving information about the people in our lives we don’t call every day — and people we don’t know that well whose lives we enjoy watching from Afar.

If you’re fun of thinking, “It’s just on social media —  it really causes many problems in an adult relationship”.

” Divorce attorneys say social media flirtations are frequently cited in their cases. And this poor guy had an asthma attack supposedly prompted by seeing how many men his ex-girlfriend had friended since their breakup.

“It’s a very common, a couples’ therapist from San Diego who reported that she sometimes hears about  social media  issues on a daily basis in her office. Couples come into conflict over everything from one party reconnecting with an ex to one not mentioning the relationship on social media  at all.

And these problems aren't limited to relationships with pre-existing problems. social media presents so many challenges to committed relationships

To be clear, social media  itself isn’t to BLAMED for the demise of domestic bliss. Instead, it’s an avenue by which threats can develop if you fail to communicate about them, and one that can exacerbate problems that already exist.

IS IT POSSIBLE FOR SOCIAL MEDIA FRIENDS TO GET MARRIED ?

Married is a situation “FOR BETTER FOR WORST “. What many people do not understand about marriage is that it doesn’t depends where how and when you meet the partner but what really matter is if there is love because with love I am very sure everything will be possible.love can cause a human being to change completely just for the seek of love 
The internet has become a common place to meet a romantic partner common, in fact, that the As more and more people are finding love online, it’s worth considering how the technology that brought them together might affect the course of their marital relationships. Yet, until recently, little was known about how couples who met online fared in marriage

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POWER FACTOR OF LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Love is not the same for everyone

 Most Relationship do not last long Because
                         ''love doesn't exist among the couples '' 
 but the truth. About this affair  of love is 
                                              «  let the really you in you speak out «


             TO BE SINCERE  MONEY  IS ONE OF THE MOST ESSENTIAL IN A RELATIONSHIP BE IT FOR A BOY OR A GIRL for  more ....

More than a Feeling – The Healing Power of Love & Commitment

More Than a Feeling

Love is more than a feeling. Love is a powerful choice and commitment. To be with, care for, and stand by another is a sacred gift we give to our beloved and ourselves. Committed Love has the power to heal, transform and deepen our engagement with life.

Love plumbs the depth of the heart, touching whatever residue is residing and hiding there. You cannot love deeply without excavating both the joy and wounding in your heart. Love has the power to protect, awaken, heal and enliven you – mind, body, heart and spirit. Love taps into the essence of your longings for life.