MARRY A WIFE NOT A VIRGIN

Some guys think virginity makes a good wife. 

"NO" let me tell you, virginity is a pride to a woman but remember, after your first copulation, it will exist no more! Do not marry her because she is a virgin rather marry her because she has the qualities of a wife.
A good wife is a crown to her husband. Notwithstanding, virginity may be a added advantage, however, do not get carried away allowing that to be your yardstick for measuring a good wife! It is worthy of note, some ladies are virgin, not because they chose to, rather circumstances such as: parental or guidance absolute monitoring and control, stringent conditionalities and the fair of the pain prevent them. The moment they get loosed, whores are even better off them.
Meanwhile, if you hear the horrible stories of how some ladies lost their virginity, you'll almost cry for them: we've heard different stories of rape and incest. Some even lost theirs to family members at a tender age, some through harm robbery or as a domestic worker due to unavailable lack of parental care. These are circumstances beyond their control. Would you blame them?
Furthermore, womanhood is a cycle: from a DAUGHTER to a WIFE and then to a MOTHER. A badly raised daughter would definitely be a mistake as a wife and a liability to her husband no doubt about it. Whereas a properly trained and oriented daughter will grow up to become a good wife and an asset to her husband. As the popular saying, "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME"!
Conclusively, if you are single and searching bachelor, put this at the back of your mind that "marrying a virgin is a pride but does not guarantee successful marriage" and for the virgins, try and acquire the good Qualities that makes up a good wife. Do not make that pride you kept for so long becomes a waste. To all the spinsters, your character is what defines you and the type of home you'll build. Wishing you a good luck!

Top 10 secrets preparing for marriage

Secret 1

Everyone in marriage has a weakness. Take note : Only God does not have a weakness.  if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength...

Secret 2

Everyone has a  history be it good or bad. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Disrespect

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Cheating

Pride

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract in any form . It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to each of the couples must pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw , youths take note. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. 

Rasta for peace pleads with us singles  today that  let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. 

THIS IS FOR THE LADIES ALONE

Tips to keep your VAGINA clean, sweet and healthy.
As a WOMAN, keeping your Vagina healthy and sweet is extremely important. Your sexual
organs are very valuable and must be cared for.
1. A clean Vagina is very important so wash your vagina with cold water
more than you've previously done in a day. Clean the vagina every time you wee wee or after toilet because it smells all the time no matter how clean or beautiful a lady is. Make sure to clean with cold water.
2. Leaving too much hair around the vagina is not a good deal. During sex,the hair can cause cuts on the PENIS organs and condom. Also, hair around the base of the vagina can be breeding ground for boils and cause bad odour, so shave and clean. The hair around your VAGINA promotes bad smell.
3. Many women wear one underpant for the whole day or even two but for health reasons pls change your dross
4. Dirty underpants may give your vagina a permanent bad smell and a bad taste.
5. Ladies, what you eat affects the taste of your hotness or increases it. Avoid too much garlic, onion, alcohol, coffee and spicy foods. Eat fruits that are high in natural sugar like oranges, apples, mangoes and please take honey too. They all make you hot and attractive.
6. After shaving, you might have to deal with serious irritations. The Vagina doesn't need perfume to smell good so don't spray perfume around your VAGINA
7. Regular sex by a real penis, not vibrator, gives you extra vitamins in your body. Do not put anything in your vagina except a natural PENIS.(Consequences of masturbation)
8. Never pile up your panties to wash them weekly or fortnightly or monthly. Dried moisture in your panties from your vagina develops and grows bacteria and or fungus over a short period of time which hastens infection.
9.Wash panties daily and dry it in the sun. No matter how ugly they look, you bought them yourself. Take no pride in drying a lot of panties on the line and possess a fungus. click  here

THE SINCERE TRUTH ABOUT MEN:

I know  most ladies will  deny this  , especially those that have pass through hard times in a relationship most of them will say

1. All men are not the same.
2. It is not all men that cheat on their spouses.
3. Some men don't have time for women.  this is just a simple truth because happen because ladies don't create time to study their man if what there feel  for them is like wise.
4. It is not all men that like women.
5. What a man needs from his woman is respect. Just respect and obey him. He will love and take care of you.
6. Sex cannot make a man love you. If you like give him sex everyday, if he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you.
7. If you want a man to love and take care of you, treat him like a baby. Pet him.
8. Men hate a nagging wife.
9. Allow him to be in charge of the house. Allow him to head the family. Do not control him.
10. Do not try to use sex to capture his heart. It will not work. Cook delicious food, be obedient to him, be submissive. You will capture his heart.
11. Men love beautiful women. A lady should make herself look beautiful and attractive.let me go smoke
    

DON'T LET PRIDE DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE!!!!!!j

A relationship filled with proud partners and ego-filled lovers is almost certainly bound to fail.

Everyone, irrespective of gender, has pride deeply rooted in their heart, but pride destroys relationships as it breeds anger, malice and hatred.

Here are ways to deal with pride in a relationship:

Most relationships and Marriages are destroyed because of pride.

Do you know why?

Some Ladies find it so difficult to apologize to their partners when they are wrong. My dear Please try to be a peace maker even when you know you are not the one at fault. Let peace reign first. Later,one of those happy moments you use to be together, call him,Let him understand that he was wrong in what he did, I bet you, he must say "am Sorry Immediately and will even Love you more and more. As a lady, the way you want your house to be that's how it's going to be. Some Ladies will say "If he did not apologize,Let him come and touch me nahhhh... " My dear if you don't allow him,he will do it outside and last last,he will bring disease and give you. So now tell me Who Loose? Don't mind those Ladies who gives you wrong advice telling you to forget that man that he must come back to beg you. They are  "HOME BREAKERS". If they are in your shoes they will be the one to apologize first. If that man leaves you today,they will be the first person to rush him.So please be wise. Some Men always feel like it's always the duty of a woman to Apologize every time, but it's not so. You as a man supposed to apologize too whether right or wrong just to keep that happiness in your family or Relationship. I focused on ladies because in Most Cases we are the ones to loose and suffer it most especially when you are not an Independent woman.(Financially Stable) The rate of Single Mum's I see sometimes is too much and most of their marriages or relationship broke because of PRIDE. Some broke because of different other reason but pride has broken many. Please dear Ladies don't let Pride destroy your sweet and happy home or Relationship. Learn to Say "I AM SORRY " and God will always bless you as Partners. 

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BEING MENTALLY BROKE IS WORSE THAN NOT HAVING MONEY!!!!!!

After writing about mentally broke girls, I realized that some people can read but cannot understand.
Some ladies are not happy while some are happy but the fact is that, some don't even understand what Mentally broke means.
Just Look at these points below.


How do you explain it when a guy always give you some cash and out of that money you can't for one day get him anything in return to show appreciation no matter how little it is?

How do you explain this,Before You visit your guy everytime, he will send you transport to come, and not that he will give you the exact amount that will take you to his house, he will send you more than the transport so that you can have change.
Aunty,can't you for once use little change out of that Money that always remain and visit the guy you said you love?, at least for once let him know you care.
How do you explain it when a guy sends you recharge card and you will still use that same recharge card to FLASH him,then he will call you back to ask you if you have seen the card,Is it good?

Sometimes they won't even flash back  until the guy decides to call,it's unfair my dear sister.

How do you explain this, Whenever you are doing your birthday, he showers you with Gifts and present, but when it's his turn, you won't remember, he will call you to tell you that it's his birthday and you will ask him to send you recharge card so that you can call him,
Aunty make you reason with me nah,e no make sense.
How do you explain it when you always request money from the guy you love before he can touch you, or after making love with you?

Aunty are you a Sex Worker?
Must it be that moment?
How do you explain it when you have the money with you but you can't use it to do anything,Always depending on the guy to do everything for you.

My problem is that they don't add any positive impact in the guys life,Always wanting to be spent on.
Nothing Like Emotional Intelligence,Financial Intelligence or Spiritual Intelligence.

Now You understand what I mean by being MENTALLY BROKE. Mentally broke does not mean not having Money,it's worse than not having money.
I still repeat it again guys,
"STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS"
Ladies,if you find yourself in these categories,
My dear, You are MENTALLY BROKE.
Try and Change your ways.
Have a nice day....

PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE NOT WEDDING!!!!

6Good morning friends and happy start of a new week ...
Wrong marriages have ruined so many great destinies!
Many people prepare for Wedding and forget to prepare for Marriage.
That is why many Marriages fail.
My dear listen,
Wedding is not marriage,
You can have the best wedding in town but have the worst Marriage in town. So it's left for you to choose the right one for you.
Wedding only lasts for a Day,but marriage lasts Forever.
Please always remember that.
You have to be careful when choosing a Life Partner.
If it's the type who loves wedding more than marriage, my dear avoid them because they will only be preparing for wedding and forget about marriage.
There is No one who goes through pains more than a Man or woman who is Married to a wrong man or woman.