GO FOR COUNCILLING BEFORE MARRIAGE

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TO MEN IN MARRIAGE

I alway say any MAN demanding for respect or submission from a woman is undoubtedly not doing something right. A man can never tell me he is playing his role as a man and she is not reciprocating. My brother I will tell you fat lie.

Even in de society wen all men are gathered as long as your a man who is not meeting up to standard no one even your fellow men won't respect you my brother. Submission mean respect so why come home to kill your innocent wife with your chant of uselessness

go work , huzzle and provide your respect and i tell you submissiveness from a woman will come naturally

Respect is earned not demanded.

TO WOMEN IN MARRIAGE

Women too we know are not small. Women should married a man and not a boy. Not just any man but a man that  has been providing, playing his role from the onset as a MAN. Courtship has a very big role before marriage, not starting hot hot now and when things are not going well for him now you no longer want to respect and submit to him...

you are a disgrace to woman hood my sister because if u were a wise woman that called man or husband won't have crumbled you in de first place without u lifting him up.

Marriage is a journey before you embark on needs adequate preparation, councilling and mentorship.. 

Wish you a pappy marriage life or preparation for marriage.

Discribing a banana to HOLINESS

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Once a Pastor was preaching about holiness inside AND out. A brother interrupted the Pastor and asked this question: 

" When you eat a banana,  what do you eat? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The Pastor answered him, "the inside." The brother responded to him, 

"so God is more concerned with what is on the inside (the heart) than what is on the outside (appearance). 

The Pastor immediately received a word from God and asked the brother this question,

 "when you go to buy bananas,  What do you notice first? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The brother said, 

 "the outside." 

The Pastor replied, 

"because Holiness IS inside AND out.  Having a clean heart is important.  But dressing as children of God is also important. "

WHY A GUY CAN'T STAY IN A DATE WITH YOU MY SISTER

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A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them S..x, Some have even turned into S..x toys just to keep their man

Let us be very open here.

S..x might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove s..x from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their man!

Keep S..x aside, what do you have to offer your  man

Can you support him Spiritually?

Can you Support him physically/Financially?

How about Mentally?

All you do is Demand Money for Bags, money for shoes,money for a phones, money for clothes and unnecessary Outings etc

Making him spend unnecessarily. 

What are you even bringing to the table???

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future???

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for already made husband when you are not a made Wife...

Hope you got my point, I am not being that harsh just to our ladies, just telling them my own part of the observation.. 

MEN SHOULD CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER WISELY (WIFE)

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When a man goes into choosing A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage house full time.

If you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY.

If you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you.

If you choose to be with a STRONG BRAVE WOMAN, you need to accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways.

If you choose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, you need to accept all the EXPENSES.

If you choose to be with A GREAT/CAREER WOMAN,you must also accept that she is HARD and FIRM.

If you choose A DADDY'S GIRL, get ready to pamper her and treat her like a baby.

NO WOMAN IS PERFECT

A woman has her own "GOOD THING" that defines who she is and makes her unique.

Go for what can your tolerate....

NO TO SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

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 Couples who wish to enjoy their marital relationship, should NEVER for WHAT SO EVER reason creat a room for secrets in marriage.

 Secrets totally wipes out trust in marriage. Secrets destroy marriage. 

Your spouse should AVOID acting loke a detective, investigator or secret service agent. Successful marriages are built on transparency, openness and truthfulness. 

Couples should know, It takes years to build trust, but it takes a single secret to destroy it and it takes sincere apologies and a lifetime of proven honest living to restore and repair it. 

Respect your spouse and honor your commitment. Live an honorable, open and honest life. 

“The two shall become one flesh.”

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE TODAY WITH THE BITTER TRUTH ABOUT IT ALL.

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Marriage is a journey most singles dream to pass through. Before you embark on the marriage journey, you should know so we'll  that in marriage,
There are days you wish you had remained single.
There are also months you look at your spouse and wonder 'what was i thinking when I married him/her?
There are times you'll wish you had married someone different.
There are times you feel like  divorce is the only option left.
There are instances you feel betrayed beyond recovery.
There are also times you feel your love is been taken for granted. 

             Beloveth You are not alone. The truth is that every marriage has it's fair share of trials/difficult moments. Every marriage goes through rough times. Every Husband and wife experiences perplexing moments. Remember it's the rough surfaces that sharpen the best. Rough times are meant to build your marriage not break it. The beauty of marriage is in realizing that difficult seasons are temporal moments. Straight roads don't make experienced drivers.

God bless every marriage

TOP SECRETS IN SUCESSFUL MARRIAGE

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             1st Secret 

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

            2nd Secret 

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

            3rd Secret 

Every  marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

              4th Secret 

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

             5th Secret 

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Disrespect 

Cheating 

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

             6th Secret 

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

              7th Secret 

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

             8th Secret 

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

            9th Secret 

Marriage is not a contract. It is  permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

           10th Secret

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because  you never know who you may be helping. May God bless you all.