Wednesday, April 6, 2022

Five (5) Secret Habits You Should Let Him Go And Stop Thinking of Marriage


So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits.

If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realise that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him.

NARROW-MINDEDNESS:

The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare.

You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.

That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell.

2 HATES ANIMALS:

Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous even reading the phrase ‘hates animals’? Who on earth hates animals? Nobody does; that is the answer. So if he does not like animals without any good reasons like allergies etc and makes you choose between he and your pet, always choose your pet.


Not having fondness of them is fine but literally wanting to be away from them because ‘they are animals’ shows great lack of empathy. You will be living with a cruel human animal if you decide to marry him.

3 THE RELATIONSHIP RULES MEAN NOTHING TO HIM:

He likes to play wild, and it is not a good sign. You tell to not do something and he does exactly the same. Not only is that disrespecting you but it is completely disregarding the relationship rules.

Every relationship has some ground rules that need to be followed naturally by both the partners but if he goes off the line again and again without ever paying heed to your concerns about them, he is totally not worth marrying. Absolute disrespect should never be appreciated or given a second chance.

4 BREAKS PROMISES:

A little mistake or a sometimes forgetful mind can be excused and even a big promise, if broken once in a blue moon, can be forgiven too but if the frequency of promise breaking increases visibly then it is time for some cleaning and washing.

If he nods vigorously while making promises and easily breaks those only days later, it obviously means that he is making a fool out of you. That is not a good relationship to be in so reject that promise-breaker and find a keeper.

5 GIVES YOU SECONDARY TREATMENT:

It gets messy when one of the two people is more into the relationship than the other one. It begins to fall apart since it is all about giving, taking, sharing and receiving, just like Joey said.

So if you are the one giving your best to the relationship while he sleeps peacefully and does nothing at all, it means that you do not mean to him what he means to you.

There is no point taking such an empty connection along so do not marry the guy who gives you secondary treatment when you deserve to be the first priority.

Five (5) Things a woman desire from her partner


Woman


1) Your attention
2) Your Care
3) Your Understanding altitude
4) A hard working man and your 🍆
(Hahahaha you laughed right? It was a joke)
5) She wants your LOVE.

Today's generation feels like relationship is all about material things that's why they can sell themselves to men worth to be call their grandpa simply because they need Iphone, money and to live a luxurious life.

Woman reshape your life and you will enjoy,

Monday, March 14, 2022

WHEN MARRIAGE TURNS TO A MISTAKE.


Most times when a marriage is in trouble , people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on. 

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room. 

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is s

een in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “So as you make your bed so shall uoulie on it”. 

Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

 It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,but you are the mistake.

Your habit is the mistake
Your character is the mistake
Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.

Talking about Bitterness.

 Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake. 

So get up now and  build your marriage because it is not a mistake. Divorce or separation are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.

I pray let the Almighty GOD bless all marriages. Amen.

LET'S SEND THIS TO ALL OUR CHILDREN (MARRIED OR YET TO). IT WILL SURELY AMEND A HOME.
💕💕💕💕💕

Tuesday, March 8, 2022

CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP



Cheating is not only having s..x with another person who is not your wife/husband, husbands and wives should take special note.

Doing any of this things listed below, you are considered a cheat to your partner.  

1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband.

2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife.

3. Sharing s...x jokes with a person who is not your spouse.

4. Deleting messages which you don't want your spouse to read.

5. Avoid answering some calls in the presence of your spouse or stepping aside to answer calls.

6. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognize.

7. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa



8. Exposing Your body in a dress for others to see.

9. You complain about your partner to someone else.

10. Having a secret friend.

Don't cheat, if you are unhappy just leave.

WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE SOMEONE TO DO TO YOU, DON'T DO IT TO OTHERS. 

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.

Saturday, February 12, 2022

HOW TO SOLVE YOUR LIFE, MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS


Whether You Know This or Not, Everybody Is Facing his or her own individual  problem be it in marriage or relationship .

Problems in any affair or relationship Are Not Peculiar to You or Any Single Individual in This World, Everybody Is Facing One or Two Challenges in Their Marriages, life or Relationships. 


How You Handle Your Problems Is What Determines the Outcome and Whether You Will Move Forward in Life or Move Backward. So think twice in any decision youare about to emback on. 

Your Problem, No Matter How Big or Small It May Be, Has Some Profits for You and your relationship. When You Learn How to Solve It and Act , That Is When You Will Get the Profits. 

Discover individual techniques on How to Solve Your Problems and Make Profits from Them and avoid telling your friends  or colleagues every small misunderstanding or good future plans you got with your wife or man. 











Friday, February 11, 2022

UNTOLD SECRETS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP


1. S...x doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360 degree on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money.


3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being s...xy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. S...x can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, S...x is a product of love, love is not a product of S...x.

7. S...x can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

Wednesday, February 9, 2022

MEDICAL FITNESS AND PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

MEDICAL FITNESS BLOOD PRESSURE
120/80 --  Normal
130/85 --Normal  (Control)
140/90 --  High
150/95 --  V.High


           PULSE
72  per minute (standard)
60 --- 80 p.m. (Normal)
40 -- 180  p.m.(abnormal)


------TEMPERATURE----------

98.4 F    (Normal)
99.0 F Above  (Fever)


Notethat

Know your genotype before you say yes to that handsome guy or to that beautiful lady whom you wish to spend the rest of your life with.

Genotype & It's Appropriate Suitor
AA + AA = Excellent
AA + AS = Good
AA + SS = Fair
AS + AS = Bad
AS + SS = Very Bad
SS + SS = Extremely Bad (In fact, don't try it)

#SickleCellAwareness

BLOOD GROUP COMPATIBILITY

What’s Your Type and how common is it?

O+       1 in 3        37.4% (Most common)

A+        1 in 3        35.7%

B+        1 in 12        8.5%

AB+     1 in 29        3.4%

O-        1 in 15        6.6%

A-        1 in 16        6.3%

B-        1 in 67        1.5%

AB-     1 in 167        .6%  (Rarest)

Compatible Blood Types

O- can receive O-

O+ can receive O+, O-

A- can receive A-, O-

A+ can receive A+, A-, O+, O-

B- can receive B-, O-

B+ can receive B+, B-, O+, O-

AB- can receive AB-, B-, A-, O-

AB+ can receive AB+, AB-, B+, B-, A+,  A-,  O+,  O-

This is an important message which can save a life. A life could be saved.
What is your blood group ?
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EFFECT OF WATER              
 We Know Water is 
       important but never 
       knew about the 
       Special Times one 
       has to drink it.. !

       ♯Did you  ?

  Drinking Water at the 
       Right Time  
       Maximizes its 
       effectiveness on the 
       Human Body;

         1 Glass of Water 
              after waking up -
              helps to 
              activate internal 
              organs..

         1 Glass of Water 
              30 Minutes   
              before a Meal - 
              helps digestion..

        1 Glass of Water 
              before taking a 
              Bath  - helps 
              lower your blood 
              pressure.

        1 Glass of Water 
              before going to 
              Bed -  avoids 
              Stroke  or Heart 

LOVE, RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING

A WOMAN AS A LIABILITY Vs A WOMAN AS AN ASSET.