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Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blog One of the mistakes single men make is being in a relationship with a lady because of her beauty. Actually, a man is attracted to a lady chiefly because of what he sees. If you like what you see, then you can move to the way she thinks, her beliefs, her faith, visions and philosophy of life. Sadly, some men however make the mistake of equating a beautiful body with a beautiful mind, heart and spirit. See, If a lady does not posses character, her beauty will just not suffice. What qualifies a woman to be termed "Good Enough" for a man is her CHARACTER. Let me shock you a bit. Do you know that there are beautiful prostitutes, but have you ever met a sane man who proudly introduced a prostitute as his fiancèe?  I know what you're thinking right now. You're probably muttering the regular parlance, "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". Again. Don't be deceived into the school of thought ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot "Marriage sweet, marriage sweet"   Let us try to discuss the following points about married couples.  1. Your partner may be a snoring type: incase you hate snoring and maybe your destiny is to marry one, start doing vigil, get a pet pig 🐖 by you every night so that you become use to it 😅 hope you have some popcorn beside you?  2. Your partner may be scatter: you know, relationship is home for preparation. Forget the days you visit him and everything is neat. Marry him first and tell us the story. 😅 3. Your partner may squize the toothpaste his own way: two ways to handle this, start training on squising the toothpaste both in the middle and at the end so whatever you meet, that's fine. 4. Mood swingers: not Everytime he is likely to have a smiling face. If she is that type, get to know what turns him up and attack her there. 5. He is a man or woman of the people : if you are a reserved and...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Are you worried why once a man meets you face to face he nolonger picks your calls? Are you thinking you are too beautiful nor educated or have that charisma the he needs or he is searching for? Why do you worry all around say your friends, relatives and mates are getting married while all you do is keep attending their bridal, baby shower etc?? Let no one lie to you, men are moved more by what they see and certain attires will drop the love or affection he has for you from grace to grass and let me say this loud, men hardly tell you why they disqualify you, they just ignore and close the chapter. Now some will say some men love 😻😻 it’s a lie, responsible men are looking at what he will love to see under his roof the rest of his life, not rings nor chains at abnormal locations. Preparing yourself for marriage is not bread and butter my beautiful sisters. Before you jump from one pulpit to the other praying for m...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot "If I'm angry, I need someone to vent to. If I'm sad, I want someone to tell me it's going to get better. If I'm happy, I want to share that with someone. To me, friends are a necessity in friendship" It's been said that  little children need playmates while adolescents need friends. A playmate is someone who keeps you company A friend is someone who also shares your values. Even the bible states that " a true companion is loving all the time and is a brother that is born for when there's distress" (Proverbs 17:17) That's probably describing the kind of friendship than you found as a child at the playground!  Fact: As you progress toward adulthood, you need friends who 1. Have admirable qualities 2. Live by praiseworthy standards 3. Have a positive influence on you 4. Have a GOD fearing concience  Question : How can you find friends who fit that profile?

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Ladies should always try their possible best when in marriage or a deep relationship by: 1. Call your man/husband by a pet name 2. Allow your man/husband exercise his authority as the head of the family. 3. Do not challenge your man/husband when he is hurt. 4. Be silent when your man/husband is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved that way that annoyed him. 5. Be quick to tell your man/husband "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his orgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does. 6. Speak good of your man/husband before his friends and siblings. 7. Honor your man/husband's mother 8. Insist that your man/husband buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents 9. Surprise your man/husband with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food. 10. D...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot If you  have a serious chest pains and you have tried different types of drugs or herbs to cure it, and the pains still remain, then this plant or leaf is the answer. Go very early in the morning and uproot plenty of this plant.   Procedure:  Cut out only the roots of it and throw away the leaves and others.  put all the plenty roots of this plant in a mortar and pound it all together after this, soak in a clean water of about 4 litre full and keep it to ferment for 24 hours. Start drinking a glass cup of it morning and evening for a week, you will never have that chest pain again.  Don't forget to wash the root of every sand. Another way also is to get the root of this plant, wash it very well and boil it with water then sieve it and pour the water inside a 4liter container and take it a glass cup early in the morning and evening. It works like magic..

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot ​​MAXIMUM EXTREME RANGE OF SXE IS 13 MINUTES For married men and women only. Stay away from Tramadol Men Please, stop killing yourselves with aphrodisiacs ( Enhancing  drugs). Depending on what side of the sxe duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes is good. But, according to a 2008 study of United States & Canadian sxe therapists, sxe that is  “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to five minutes, and some extreme condition is seven to 13 minutes. It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is unusual. So, why then has the issue of sex in marriages become a hard nut to crack. Today all medications on the market has it written on their labels: s... xual weakness. This is giving ladies the impression that the maximum Five minutes of sxe isn't enough making them pressure the men to seek for supporting aids (aphrodisiac). The youth are dying early because of...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Pineapple leaves can thus do wonders to your health, and before you ponder further go and grab some boiled water of pineapple leaves to stay fit and healthy PINEAPPLE LEAVES Do not waste it any more, why complain of  inflammatory pains and waist pain. M ake tea from pineapple leaves it. It wipes all pains in seconds, heals ulcer and cough too. It nourishes the body and it is better than poisoning your system with capsules, tramadol pain reliever  that do endanger life and cause ulcer. Just boil and drink . Pineapple Leaves contains 👉 Calcium oxalate 👉Bromelin enzyme 👉Pectic substantial 👉Fiber 👉Cellulose 👉Pentose Heals  Nose bleeding For those of you who experience frequent bleeding from nose because of fatigue or stress, you can cure it by drinking boiled water pineapple leaves regularly. To make it a bit tastier, you can add some honey to it. Drives away weakness Pineapple leaves are also effe...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Self-respect is knowing you are worthy and treating yourself accordingly. Respecting yourself is the first step toward understanding you deserve love, consideration, and opportunities like everyone else. Workout the following for a start. 1. Stop begging people all of the time. 2. Stop looking for who is not looking for you. 3. Don't be a liability. 4. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours. 5. Reduce how you visit some people especially when they don't show concern. 6. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy. 7. Stop entertaining gossips. 8. Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth. 9. Be an achiever by getting busy with your goal. 10. Respect time. 11. Don't stay in a relationship where you are constantly disrespected. 12. Be scared sometimes. 13. Be a giver more than a receiver. 14. Learn how to spend money on yourself that how people...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot DID YOU KNOW THAT THIS 3 ITEMS CAN DO WONDERS?   1. BITTER COLA 2.  BITTER LEAF 3.  MALT. 1. It cures sexually transmitted disease, staphylococcus aureus 2. It cure typhoid fever by killing the bacterium, Salmonella typhi. 3It is effective in treating herpes and chlaymdia 4. It is effective in eradicating infertility in man and woman. 5. It prevents prostate cancer. and other types of cancer. 6.It treats stomach ache, fever, bloating and constipation. 7. It prevents respiratory illnesses, such as fever, asthma, cough, bronchitis, etc. Preparation Get 7 bitter kola and a handful of bitter leaf.  Please grind with stone and don't blend it.  When grinding, ensure you don't make it too watery, just add little water. Add a bottle of malt to the mixture.  The function of the malt is to allow for proper dispersion by providing a liquid medium that the solids (bitter kola and bitter leaf) can...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot 1. If your kids dress naked on the street and you call it fashion or civilization.  2. If your kids in primary and secondary schools have their personal andriod phone in the name of doing assignment. Get ready to raise rotten children.  3. During birthday you dress you female child  half naked and post on social media expecting positive comments. Hmmmm. 3. Your kids have access to any channel of their choice in your television even when you are not present.  Be sure that you will raise vangabonds, i repeat vangabonds.   4. Your child is doing something wrong and no body can correct him/ her because you will always fight for him. Don't worry Govt will soon parade him/her on media.  5. A teacher corrected your kid in school and he/she cried home to report to you. You organise a protest to the school for the teacher to be sacked. You no well andriod parent? 6. You went on social media d...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot For those Christians WHO are still holding to JEZEBEL properties, for your information those things are idols.  For those who think that it doesn't matter what you wear or attached to your body.  That God only look the Heart, my friend you cannot deceive God because what you put on defines your inside, The way you 👗 dresses will determine how they will address you.  HEAVEN IS A HOLY PLACE,  THERE'S NO SAINT THAT LOOK S..XY IN HEAVEN THEY ARE ALL PURE AND HOLY Christians using the properties of JEZEBEL or satanic influence products make you as idols worshiper in sight of God,  Give away every properties of JEZEBELS and cleans yourself from demonic pollution. Those things defiled you before God REPENT and plead for the blood of Jesus to clean you from satanic pollution, I know most of you will feel bad about This post or thinking I am judging, No it's better you know the truth because only t...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot So take some time out before you decide to marry a guy, even if you have dated him for a long time, and go through these 5 habits. If he has them, or most of them, reject him and shut the case close because once you read these habits, you will realise that the only thing you need to do with this guy is either get him jailed or be miles away from him. 1  NARROW-MINDEDNESS : The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you. That kind of negativity can ruin your life and make you regret marrying him. It is better to dump such a man at once instead of later regretting it when he displays his narrow-mindedness and makes your life hell. 2 HATES ANIMALS : Didn’t you feel a little blasphemous e...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot 1) Your attention 2) Your Care 3) Your Understanding altitude 4) A hard working man and your 🍆 (Hahahaha you laughed right? It was a joke) 5) She wants your LOVE. Today's generation feels like relationship is all about material things that's why they can sell themselves to men worth to be call their grandpa simply because they need I-phone, money and to live a luxurious life. Woman reshape your life and you will enjoy,

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Most times when a marriage is in trouble , people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues. Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet. So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them. So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage. When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on.  When we...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Cheating is not only having s..x with another person who is not your wife/husband, husbands and wives should take special note. Doing any of this things listed below, you are considered a cheat to your partner.    1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband. 2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife. 3. Sharing s...x jokes with a person who is not your spouse. 4. Deleting messages which you don't want your spouse to read. 5. Avoid answering some calls in the presence of your spouse or stepping aside to answer calls. 6. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognize. 7. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa 8. Exposing Your body in a dress for others to see. 9. You complain about your partner to someone else. 10. Having a secret friend. Don't cheat, if you are...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Whether You Know This or Not, Everybody Is Facing his or her own individual  problem be it in marriage or relationship . Problems in any affair or relationship Are Not Peculiar to You or Any Single Individual in This World, Everybody Is Facing One or Two Challenges in Their Marriages, life or Relationships.  How You Handle Your Problems Is What Determines the Outcome and Whether You Will Move Forward in Life or Move Backward. So think twice in any decision youare about to emback on.  Your Problem, No Matter How Big or Small It May Be, Has Some Profits for You and your relationship. When You Learn How to Solve It and Act , That Is When You Will Get the Profits.  Discover individual techniques on How to Solve Your Problems and Make Profits from Them and avoid telling your friends  or colleagues every small misunderstanding or good future plans you got with your wife or man. 

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot 1. S...x doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360 degree on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you. 2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money. 3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them. 4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life. 5. Being s...xy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend. 6. S...x can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, S...x is a product of love, love is not a product of S...x. 7. S...x can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime. 8. There are some thin...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspo MEDICAL FITNESS BLOOD PRESSURE 120/80 --  Normal 130/85 --Normal  (Control) 140/90 --  High 150/95 --  V.High             PULSE 72  per minute (standard) 60 --- 80 p.m. (Normal) 40 -- 180  p.m.(abnormal) -- ----TEMPERATURE-------- -- 98.4 F    (Normal) 99.0 F Above  (Fever) Notethat Know your genotype before you say yes to that handsome guy or to that beautiful lady whom you wish to spend the rest of your life with. Genotype & It's Appropriate Suitor AA + AA = Excellent AA + AS = Good AA + SS = Fair AS + AS = Bad AS + SS = Very Bad SS + SS = Extremely Bad (In fact, don't try it) #SickleCellAwareness BLOOD GROUP COMPATIBILITY What’s Your Type and how common is it? O+       1 in 3        37.4% (Most common) A+        1 in 3        35.7% B+      ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot A woman was once asked a young girl, What do you "gain" from praying to God regularly? The young girl replied: Usually ′′ I don't earn anything ", but rather ′′ I lose things ". And she quoted everything she lost praying to God regularly: I lost my pride. I lost my arrogance. I lost greed. I lost my urge. I lost ′′ my ′′ anger. I lost the lust. I lost the pleasure of lying. I lost the taste of sin. I lost impatience, despair, and discouragement. At time, so of us or we pray, not to gain something, but to lose things that don't allow us to grow spiritually. Prayer educates, strengthens, and heals. Prayer is the channel that connects us directly to God." Never stop praying. Its the master key!!!

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Scriptural readings I think will .Better our understanding that's why I had to go this far bringing up the following points.  Matthew 13:57  And they were offended in him. But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, save in his own country, and in his own house.  Matthew 13:58  And he did not many mighty works there because of their unbelief Jesus did many mighty works wherever he went. He healed the sick, raised the dead, provided miraculous food etc... but just couldn’t do much in his own town all because they had no regard for him. They knew him to be the “carpenter’s son, the son of Mary, they knew his brothers and sisters  (Mark 6:3). Many times we lose relationships that were meant to save us all because we get too familiar with them. So we take them for granted. How difficult it is for a wife to believe her husband’s anointing or even his brothers and sisters. Most tim...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot CLOSE YOUR MOUTH COMPLETELY 1 You are getting married and still on planning stage. Close your mouth 2 Do you want to travel out of the country? Close your mouth 3 You are going for interview, competition or exam. Close your mouth 4 Someone came to ask your hand in marriage. Close your mouth 5 You are planning for your children's future. Close your mouth 6 Your friends want to know your secret as a couple. Close your mouth 7 Your friends want to know what happens in your home. Close your mouth 8 Did you receive news of promotion at work? Close your mouth 9 You have a dream about a future project. Close your mouth 10 Your neighbors heard you quarrel with your spouse, they came calling to help settle the dispute. Close your mouth 11 Your child have exceptional gift or came top of class. Close your mouth 12 Your husband abroad plans taking you all abroad soon. Close your mouth 13 No matter how small or big your sa...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Patients suffering from stroke should mix this regularly for instant result.  1. Get snails, those big snails, wash them very well with clean water, then break the snail gently and don't waste the water that come out from the snails while breaking them. Gather the water from the snails together in a ragolis container and do this. This is how to collect water from snails. Soak the snails in water to get them drawned, then pick each snail and break the pointed end of the snail and was will be coming out of it, the water is not slining one but brownish in colour. The quantity of the water gathered from the snail will be dependent on the number of snail you have. After gathering the water together in a ragolis container.  2. Get a tin peak milk, open it then pour all the peak milk inside Ragolis container where you have the water from the snail and do this afterwards. After you have mixed both the snail wate...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Read This Carefully couples to learn everyday is NOT about sex. A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him . I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex. Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her. Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married m...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot A poor man always think that the rich man, made his wealth out of luck. And the rich man believes the poor is poor, because he is lazy. A young lady who got married very early, thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character. A man who just graduated and gets a job immediately, thinks he is smarter than others. While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people, who lived a wayward life and probably have "occultic" husbands who sacrifices their babies. If only the poor, knew the price the rich paid to get to the top. And if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through. None, will ever form a theory about each other. If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success, let him mind his business. If it is easy to be rich, he wouldn't have been poor. And if the rich won't help the poor grow a...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot TO MEN IN MARRIAGE I alway say any MAN demanding for respect or submission from a woman is undoubtedly not doing something right. A man can never tell me he is playing his role as a man and she is not reciprocating. My brother I will tell you fat lie. Even in de society wen all men are gathered as long as your a man who is not meeting up to standard no one even your fellow men won't respect you my brother. Submission mean respect so why come home to kill your innocent wife with your chant of uselessness go work , huzzle and provide your respect and i tell you submissiveness from a woman will come naturally Respect is earned not demanded. TO WOMEN IN MARRIAGE Women too we know are not small. Women should married a man and not a boy. Not just any man but a man that  has been providing, playing his role from the onset as a MAN. Courtship has a very big role before marriage, not starting hot hot now an...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Once a Pastor was preaching about holiness inside AND out. A brother interrupted the Pastor and asked this question:  " When you eat a banana,  what do you eat? The inside? Or the outside ?"  The Pastor answered him, "the inside." The brother responded to him,  " so God is more concerned with what is on the inside (the heart) than what is on the outside (appearance).  The Pastor immediately received a word from God and asked the brother this question,  " when you go to buy bananas,  What do you notice first? The inside? Or the outside?"  The brother said,   " the outside."  The Pastor replied,  " because Holiness IS inside AND out.  Having a clean heart is important.  But dressing as children of God is also important. "

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them S..x, Some have even turned into S..x toys just to keep their man Let us be very open here. S..x might not be the reason these guys walk away! Remove s..x from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their man! Keep S..x aside, what do you have to offer your  man Can you support him Spiritually? Can you Support him physically/Financially? How about Mentally? All you do is Demand Money for Bags, money for shoes,money for a phones, money for clothes and unnecessary Outings etc Making him spend unnecessarily.  What are you even bringing to the table??? Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future??? Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life. Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man! Build you...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When a man goes into choosing A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage house full time. If you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY. If you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN , you should accept that she DEPENDS on you. If you choose to be with a STRONG BRAVE WOMAN,   you need to accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways. If you choose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, you need to accept all the EXPENSES. If you choose to be with A GREAT/CAREER WOMAN , you must also accept that she is HARD and FIRM. If you choose A DADDY'S GIRL , get ready to pamper her and treat her like a baby. NO WOMAN IS PERFECT A woman has her own " GOOD THING " that defines who she is and makes her unique. Go for what can your tolerate....