DEAR LADY, TIME WASTERS
1) Their Actions don't match their Words.
They talk about Marriage, but when it's time for them to WALK their TALK, they go AWOL, MIA. (Away Without Leave, Missing in Action)
And return with excuses everywhere.
"I'll come see your Father/Mother next week", next week will come and his line is switched off, and of course, you'll hear super story later.
"My Mum wants to meet you" but that meeting will never happen.
They keep talking, promising, just to calm you down whenever you are uncomfortable and complain, but still, nothing tangible has happened.
2) They are Confused about What they Want.
Confusion in a Man is a sign of a lack of CLARITY and INTENTION.
Awon "I don't know yet, but let's see how and where it goes"
They don't even know HOW and WHERE they want the Relationship to go...
A Man that is confused about what he wants from you, his ATTENTION and AFFECTION always going off and on like Cameroon ENEO power authority.
CHASING YOU today, FLEEING FROM YOU tomorrow,..
You won't hear from him for a complete 2 Weeks, suddenly he comes back with no tangible reason whatsoever begging and fawning over you.
The Relationship self looks Confused
Even you, you are confused.
There's a high chance you'll hear "I'm sorry, no vex" in the end.
When you see a confused Man, excuse him, let him go and clear his head first, and make up his mind, before he comes to propose.. To avoid stories that touch.
3) THEY HAVE UNREASONABLE GOALS
They want to buy a Limousine first before they come and see your parents, they want to have 3 Million in their account before fixing date, buy a house first, after 5 years, even wheelbarrow they have not been able to buy, even land them never see, and yet your 5 years has gone.
As a Lady, one of the disservice you can do yourself is to ALLOW a Man who has no LONG TERM/PERMANENT plan for you to occupy your Space and Life and waste your Time and Emotions.
Be Ye Harmless as Doves, and WISE as Serpents"
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