DELAY IN MARRIAGE

    Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

        But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right,  but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

    With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying, 

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.

See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.

   At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.

They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
 My sister, it matters a lot.

Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?

That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

    At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1.  Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you God?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. God knows the best for everyone please.

At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.

You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.

Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

  Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35  seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?

Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.

    It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.

Change your mindset and turn to Him now, before it's too late.

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23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed . Stay Blessed  

The power of MILK and GARLIC

Garlic is an amazing Ingredients that has Countless health benefit but most people avoid it a lot because of specific taste and smell. This method keep all the nutrients intact. Milk and garlic combined together may sound to you as a crazy combination, but actually it’s an amazing one and offers numerous health benefits! You should definitely try it. This food combination sounds really strange we know but, it is worth a try. Here, we’re presenting you a recipe that is called garlic milk and is a natural medicine. You should drink it warm! YOU NEED:
 500 ml of milk
10 minced garlic cloves
2-3 teaspoons of sugar
 250 ml water

METHOD: Put the water and milk in a pot and then add the garlic. Put the pot on the stove and let the mixture boil a bit. The heat must be medium and not more and you should stir all the time! Strain this and add sugar inside. Drink it warm!

 ALL THE BENEFITS OF THIS DRINK: 

1. ASTHMA  take 3 garlic cloves every day at night, relieves this problem.
2. PNEUMONIA Take milk and garlic 3 times a day and treat this.
3.  CARDIAC ISSUES This drink helps you lower the bad LDL cholesterol and stops clots from forming, so the heart health becomes much better. It will be even more effective iIf you make this with low fat or skimmed milk.
4.JAUNDICE Garlic is excellent against jaundice and toxin removal, too. The garlic activates good enzymes and the liver starts to work fine. Our liver needs sulfur in order to make the body detox and the garlic has that sulfur. This is very important for the liver and it is even better for fatty liver disease. It contains allicin, selenium too and makes more bile so the fat of the liver is lessened. If you drink milk and garlic for 5 days, the jaundice will be gone!
 5. ARTHRITIS Take this mix every day and reduce such pains or inflammation!
6. INSOMNIA The milk and garlic mixture soothes you and helps you relax more.
7. COUGH Add turmeric in this mixture and you’ve got the perfect cough cure. Make garlic, milk and turm

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO FOR THE MAN YOU ARE ENGAGED TO

Here are most of the mistakes women do tgat makes a man change his initial desire..
1. Do not cohabit with a man who has not married you. Do not live with your boyfriend in the same house. Even if he is your fiance, do not live with him in the same house. You will look too cheap, people will be seeing you as a prostitute and a useless girl.
A good name and reputation is better than anything in the world.
2. Do not be pregnant for your boyfriend. It is senseless. Avoid pregnancy if you are not married. Note that you can never use pregnancy to tie a man down. Your boyfriendM will either deny the pregnancy or he will tell you to go and abort it.
Pregnancy before marriage is not Godly and it is a shame to you and your family.
3. Avoid abortion. Abstain from sex. If there is no sex, there will be no abortion. Condom is not a guarantee at all. Sex is not food. You can live without it.
4. Do not abandon your parents and family because of one boyfriend. Sometimes love makes some people to be stupid. Don't lose your senses because of love. Be in charge of your emotion and feelings. Let your brain control your emotion. Do not allow emotion to control your brain.
5. Do not commit suicide when your boyfriend dumps you. It does not worth it. He is not the only good man in the world.
6. Do not miss your lectures/school because a man asked you to visit him. Your education/future is more important than boyfriend.
7. Do not be rude to your parents because of your boyfriend. It is very wrong.
8. Do not beg a man to marry you. Women never try this.
9. Do not release your body for a man to be beating you. Quit him immediately. A real man does not beat woman.

Purity is a must in every relationship.

MARRY A WIFE NOT A VIRGIN

Some guys think virginity makes a good wife. 

"NO" let me tell you, virginity is a pride to a woman but remember, after your first copulation, it will exist no more! Do not marry her because she is a virgin rather marry her because she has the qualities of a wife.
A good wife is a crown to her husband. Notwithstanding, virginity may be a added advantage, however, do not get carried away allowing that to be your yardstick for measuring a good wife! It is worthy of note, some ladies are virgin, not because they chose to, rather circumstances such as: parental or guidance absolute monitoring and control, stringent conditionalities and the fair of the pain prevent them. The moment they get loosed, whores are even better off them.
Meanwhile, if you hear the horrible stories of how some ladies lost their virginity, you'll almost cry for them: we've heard different stories of rape and incest. Some even lost theirs to family members at a tender age, some through harm robbery or as a domestic worker due to unavailable lack of parental care. These are circumstances beyond their control. Would you blame them?
Furthermore, womanhood is a cycle: from a DAUGHTER to a WIFE and then to a MOTHER. A badly raised daughter would definitely be a mistake as a wife and a liability to her husband no doubt about it. Whereas a properly trained and oriented daughter will grow up to become a good wife and an asset to her husband. As the popular saying, "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME"!
Conclusively, if you are single and searching bachelor, put this at the back of your mind that "marrying a virgin is a pride but does not guarantee successful marriage" and for the virgins, try and acquire the good Qualities that makes up a good wife. Do not make that pride you kept for so long becomes a waste. To all the spinsters, your character is what defines you and the type of home you'll build. Wishing you a good luck!

Top 10 secrets preparing for marriage

Secret 1

Everyone in marriage has a weakness. Take note : Only God does not have a weakness.  if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength...

Secret 2

Everyone has a  history be it good or bad. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Disrespect

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Cheating

Pride

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract in any form . It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to each of the couples must pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw , youths take note. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. 

Rasta for peace pleads with us singles  today that  let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. 

THIS IS FOR THE LADIES ALONE

Tips to keep your VAGINA clean, sweet and healthy.
As a WOMAN, keeping your Vagina healthy and sweet is extremely important. Your sexual
organs are very valuable and must be cared for.
1. A clean Vagina is very important so wash your vagina with cold water
more than you've previously done in a day. Clean the vagina every time you wee wee or after toilet because it smells all the time no matter how clean or beautiful a lady is. Make sure to clean with cold water.
2. Leaving too much hair around the vagina is not a good deal. During sex,the hair can cause cuts on the PENIS organs and condom. Also, hair around the base of the vagina can be breeding ground for boils and cause bad odour, so shave and clean. The hair around your VAGINA promotes bad smell.
3. Many women wear one underpant for the whole day or even two but for health reasons pls change your dross
4. Dirty underpants may give your vagina a permanent bad smell and a bad taste.
5. Ladies, what you eat affects the taste of your hotness or increases it. Avoid too much garlic, onion, alcohol, coffee and spicy foods. Eat fruits that are high in natural sugar like oranges, apples, mangoes and please take honey too. They all make you hot and attractive.
6. After shaving, you might have to deal with serious irritations. The Vagina doesn't need perfume to smell good so don't spray perfume around your VAGINA
7. Regular sex by a real penis, not vibrator, gives you extra vitamins in your body. Do not put anything in your vagina except a natural PENIS.(Consequences of masturbation)
8. Never pile up your panties to wash them weekly or fortnightly or monthly. Dried moisture in your panties from your vagina develops and grows bacteria and or fungus over a short period of time which hastens infection.
9.Wash panties daily and dry it in the sun. No matter how ugly they look, you bought them yourself. Take no pride in drying a lot of panties on the line and possess a fungus. click  here