THE HIDDEN TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

1.     Communication, good communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people know what they want from the relationship and feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, it can increase trust and strengthen the bond between you.

 

2.     Any single who does not like s..x automatically implies you have nothing to do with marriage.  Be it a man or a woman, Don't create problems for yourself, because no man or woman can endure s..xless marriage. To a man, s..x  is food and if you are not ready to feed him please remain single.  To_a_woman, s..x is love, if she is not touched she feels unloved. 

 

     Christians most especially should note that, it is not a sin to be single but it      is a sin to marry and be denying your husband or wife s..x. 

 

3.     To accept a guy or a lady in a relationship, it is a two-person job. If you want your relationship to last, you cannot expect your partner to do all of the work. This works I am talking of includes general housework most especially if you both live together.  For a relationship to last, the both partners need to contribute physically and emotionally.  For any relationship running one way, might not last.

4.     As an individually, ask yourself why do good relationships fall apart. If anyone tells you relationships don't take work, they are lying you for partners and most people don't know why such situations do happen or why to go about it when a case arise. If you are in a good relationship, want to keep the attraction alive is trying to be a challenge overcomer for all relationships requires individual hardwork.

5.     Accepting your wrong and try to move towards her/him to resolve your issues and forgive your partner when they step out of line or fail to meet the expectations that you have of them. Understand why relationships fail and know when a relationship is worth keeping or letting go. Accepting wrongs and begging for apology with the intension never to fall back into the wrong you committed makes a relationship more mature and long lasting.

6.     Once in a relationship, you should think your couple, not people. When thinking about relationship problems it’s easy to think in terms of people, specifically who is right, who is wrong, who is screwed up, and who is really screwed up. This isn’t usually helpful and only leads to a blaming blaming and blaming game leading to nowhere.

7.     Always step away for a short time no matter how hurt you feel in the moment, for instant reacting leads to destruction which may only end up making you feel worse. Rather than react immediately and fall victim to your emotions, take a step back until you have relaxed a bit.( all this to avoid fighting or biting)

 

8.     Calmness uplifts most men in the heart of a woman’s love towards a man. A hurt somebody has nothing to say but only leaves us saying things we regret and exacerbating the conflict. Count to 10, take a series of deep breaths, and then decide how you want to react. →