LOVE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING ( L-RAM)

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When you see happy couple, don't envy them or assume they are lucky to find each other.  There is no happy home anywhere - if you see any be sure they were made. Being a good person or being religious doesn't make a happy home neither does riches and wealth. Marrying the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage either.  Many believers even think marrying another good believer is a sure way to having a happy home but many have been disappointed. What then makes up a happy home?  A happy home is a function of mutual fulfilment derived from mutual selfless commitment to the marital union. Having a happy home can only be achieved by deliberate efforts and determination of both parties. No matter how much a partner desires a happy home, it can only happen if the other partner want and agrees to build a happy home. To achieve a happy home , both parties...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot To get attention of such a dude takes basically two good steps. they are: 1. Admire his outfit . This means any day the guy dresses and u see him either too clean or not just tell him wow bros u are looking good, u make sense or use any sweet word u know that can convince him or that can draw the attention tell him two or three times he may give u d attention u need. 2. If this sign above cannot get his attention for u, then u can take it to God in prayers. God bless u

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot DEAR LADY, TIME WASTERS 1) Their Actions don't match their Words.  They talk about Marriage, but when it's time for them to WALK their TALK, they go AWOL, MIA.  (Away Without Leave, Missing in Action)  And return with excuses everywhere.  "I'll come see your Father/Mother next week", next week will come and his line is switched off, and of course, you'll hear super story later.  "My Mum wants to meet you" but that meeting will never happen.  They keep talking, promising, just to calm you down whenever you are uncomfortable and complain, but still, nothing tangible has happened. 2) They are Confused about What they Want.  Confusion in a Man is a sign of a lack of CLARITY and INTENTION. Awon "I don't know yet, but let's see how and where it goes" They don't even know HOW and WHERE they want the Relationship to go...  A Man that is confused about what...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When Your Spouse talk, #listen-Completely.          Most people never listen, if there is one thing a woman adores is that when she is talking, there should be someone to listen and give her a listening ear.         The most important thing in communication is to #HEAR what isn’t being said. Communicate unto the other person that which you would want him to communicate unto you if your positions were reversed. Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know. Communication works for those who work at it. There is only one rule for being a good talker – learn to listen. Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn’t listening. To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a gui...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When a GOD fearing and prayer brand Christian stops praying Immediately, you start misbehaving.  Immediately you start making poor choices in important matters of life.  Immediately you become unserious with everything. Immediately you start losing your values and opportunities. Immediately you lose spiritual receptors and become carnal.   Immediately you lose inspiration and excellence and start making errors in everything about LIFE.   Immediately you lose spiritual freshness and start decaying.  Immediately, you start losing grounds economically in the society because The LORD left you for the LORD GOD is a holy GOD. Causing you to directly start losing things. Immediately you start seeing everyone as an enemy and fake including your destiny helpers.  Immediately you stop seeing the value and beauty of life and start contemplating suicide, unnecessary competition and strife...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot After the excitement of a wedding and moving into the marital home, we need to know that marriage is a journey and couples need to make intentional efforts to steer it towards its success to keep it's PASSION ALIVE.. 1. Couple  Face-Chatting .  Couples need to set aside a time for regular heart-to-heart talks to make sure that they are on the same page in their relationship. Such sessions also give couples the chance to share about areas in their relationship that they would like to work on together to make their bond stronger. Couples Face-chat should be effective, so couples need to intentionally make time for it. Be present physically in the same space with your spouse, put your mobile phones aside, and make eye contact. As an analogy, Couple Face-Chat is like a carpark lot where you can park your issues until you next visit it again and pick up from where you left off. An estimated 30 minu...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When you put on an oversize shoe, get ready to drag it along through out your life here on Earth and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the tied   pains through out your life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. SINGLES OHHH, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: 1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that is favourable with your values and beliefs, the one who you meet at your life's journey.  It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife or a husband. 2. POSITION: Not all ...