DIFFERENCE BETWEEN COMPLETE & FINISHED IN A RELATIONSHIP

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No English dictionary  has been able to explain the difference between the two words "COMPLETE and FINISHED". Some people say there's no difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED, but there is: When you marry the right woman, you are COMPLETE! When you marry the wrong woman you are FINISHED! ..And when your wife catches you with another woman, you are ...COMPLETELY FINISHED!  And if you marry a wife who likes shopping so much, you are FINISHED COMPLETELY
    

  Wives, we should learn to trust our husbands. At times your husband may come back home late and give you one reason you cannot find in any book,
Let #love and #trust prevail.

Imagine Jonah coming back after 3 days of absence, no phone call, no message, nothing, only to tell his wife he was swallowed by a fish and vomited after 3 days  - just imagine how that sounded.
The wife will feel like breaking his head.
Swallowed by fish, really?

Are you talking to a baby?
What an insult, lying to me as if I don't have any brains? Which fish, mackerel or tilapia"?
Even if Jonah reported the issue to a pastor, that pastor will call him aside and say brother Jonah, why not pray against lying spirits..
Neighbors will shout "ahh madam, you don't understand, the fish is another woman".
But between you and I, Jonah was telling the truth

To Every Wife and Husband out there...
#TRUST_IS_POWERFUL! 

And a necessary tool for sustaining all relationships.

HOW CAN COUPLES BUILD A HAPPY MARRIED HOME

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When you see happy couple, don't envy them or assume they are lucky to find each other. 

There is no happy home anywhere

- if you see any be sure they were made. Being a good person or being religious doesn't make a happy home neither does riches and wealth. Marrying the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage either. 

Many believers even think marrying another good believer is a sure way to having a happy home but many have been disappointed.

What then makes up a happy home?  A happy home is a function of mutual fulfilment derived from mutual selfless commitment to the marital union. Having a happy home can only be achieved by deliberate efforts and determination of both parties. No matter how much a partner desires a happy home, it can only happen if the other partner want and agrees to build a happy home.

To achieve a happy home, both parties must first offer themselves as a living sacrifice on the altar of their marriage.  They must deny themselves and be willing to accept their cross.

 In a happy home, ego and self are buried in the grave of marital bliss. Partners in a happy home don't think too much about themselves but the happiness of their spouse. 

 The journey to a happy home can be initiated by the man or the woman. This journey starts with 

contentment and diligence. 

Then it continues in daily 

Forgiveness and mutual tolerance.  

No couple is happy when they continue to look at each other's 

weaknesses or offences. 

They can only be happy if they choose to accept each other's shortcomings and offenses and take their pains and hurts to the Almighty God, instead of romancing with them. 

 Happy couples don't compare their marriage with others, they are happy and contented with what's funny likewise if we are not they have. 

Happy homes are not meant for selfish and inconsiderate partners. Happiness is a choice but the price is not cheap. Only the humble and the broken can buy it.

The manual for a happy home is not designed by the society or social media.  They are designed by the couple. The ideal home mustn't follow the acceptable trends in the society rather working and practicing what makes the parties happy. 

You can initiate the journey to a happy home today no matter how far you have traveled in The t path of bitternes  unforgiveness.

  An unhappy home is the junior sibling to hell fire. A happy home is a reflection of heavenly bliss. The choice is yours today. 

I Give Peace a chance in your marriage today and let New things begin.

HOW CAN A WOMAN APPROACH A MAN SHE LOVES

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To get attention of such a dude takes basically two good steps. they are:

1. Admire his outfit. This means any day the guy dresses and u see him either too clean or not just tell him wow bros u are looking good, u make sense or use any sweet word u know that can convince him or that can draw the attention tell him two or three times he may give u d attention u need.

2. If this sign above cannot get his attention for u, then u can take it to God in prayers. God bless u

WAYS TO IDENTIFY TIME WAISTERS

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DEAR LADY, TIME WASTERS

1) Their Actions don't match their Words.

 They talk about Marriage, but when it's time for them to WALK their TALK, they go AWOL, MIA.  (Away Without Leave, Missing in Action) 

And return with excuses everywhere. 

"I'll come see your Father/Mother next week", next week will come and his line is switched off, and of course, you'll hear super story later.

 "My Mum wants to meet you" but that meeting will never happen. 

They keep talking, promising, just to calm you down whenever you are uncomfortable and complain, but still, nothing tangible has happened.

2) They are Confused about What they Want. 

Confusion in a Man is a sign of a lack of CLARITY and INTENTION.

Awon "I don't know yet, but let's see how and where it goes"

They don't even know HOW and WHERE they want the Relationship to go... 

A Man that is confused about what he wants from you, his ATTENTION and AFFECTION always going off and on like Cameroon ENEO power authority.

CHASING YOU today, FLEEING FROM YOU tomorrow,..

You won't hear from him for a complete 2 Weeks, suddenly he comes back with no tangible reason whatsoever begging and fawning over you. 

The Relationship self looks Confused

Even you, you are confused. 

There's a high chance you'll hear "I'm sorry, no vex" in the end.

When you see a confused Man, excuse him, let him go and clear his head first, and make up his mind, before he comes to propose.. To avoid stories that touch. 

3) THEY HAVE UNREASONABLE GOALS

They want to buy a Limousine first before they come and see your parents, they want to have 3 Million in their account before fixing date, buy a house first, after 5 years, even wheelbarrow they have not been able to buy, even land them never see, and yet your 5 years has gone.

As a Lady, one of the disservice you can do yourself is to ALLOW a Man who has no LONG TERM/PERMANENT plan for you to occupy your Space and Life and waste your Time and Emotions.

Be Ye Harmless as Doves, and WISE as Serpents"

All marriages go through communication mishaps.

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When Your Spouse talk, #listen-Completely. 

        Most people never listen, if there is one thing a woman adores is that when she is talking, there should be someone to listen and give her a listening ear. 

       The most important thing in communication is to #HEAR what isn’t being said. Communicate unto the other person that which you would want him to communicate unto you if your positions were reversed. Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know. Communication works for those who work at it. There is only one rule for being a good talker – learn to listen. Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn’t listening. To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others. I think for any relationship to be successful, there needs to be loving communication, appreciation, and understanding.

CHRISTIANS WHEN YOU STOP PRAYING.

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When a GOD fearing and prayer brand Christian stops praying Immediately, you start misbehaving.

 Immediately you start making poor choices in important matters of life.

 Immediately you become unserious with everything.

Immediately you start losing your values and opportunities.

Immediately you lose spiritual receptors and become carnal.

 

Immediately you lose inspiration and excellence and start making errors in everything about LIFE.

 

Immediately you lose spiritual freshness and start decaying. 

Immediately, you start losing grounds economically in the society because The LORD left you for the LORD GOD is a holy GOD. Causing you to directly start losing things.

Immediately you start seeing everyone as an enemy and fake including your destiny helpers. 

Immediately you stop seeing the value and beauty of life and start contemplating suicide, unnecessary competition and strife.

 Immediately, you become more susceptible to witchcraft.

Immediately, your light become darkness.

 Immediately, you start comforting yourself that your TV experiences are enough and fellowship is not important .

 

 Anytime prayer stops, it is quickly replaced and overtaken by a wrong habit and spirit, because nature habors no vacuum. Watch it!

Pray even if you don't feel like

Praying is not a feeling is a commitment! 

God bless you  START A PRAYING HABIT!!!

HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE

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After the excitement of a wedding and moving into the marital home, we need to know that marriage is a journey and couples need to make intentional efforts to steer it towards its success to keep it's PASSION ALIVE..

1. Couple  Face-Chatting. 

Couples need to set aside a time for regular heart-to-heart talks to make sure that they are on the same page in their relationship. Such sessions also give couples the chance to share about areas in their relationship that they would like to work on together to make their bond stronger.

Couples Face-chat should be effective, so couples need to intentionally make time for it. Be present physically in the same space with your spouse, put your mobile phones aside, and make eye contact. As an analogy, Couple Face-Chat is like a carpark lot where you can park your issues until you next visit it again and pick up from where you left off. An estimated 30 minutes to an hour of Couple Face-Chat atleast once every week may be helpful for some couples to start with, but many have found it beneficial to increase the times per week.

2. Do things and have fun together.

Couples should alway try spending time doing things together, laughing together, letting your hair down and having fun together are some things a couple should have in their relationship. Experiencing such moments together helps couples to bond and create shared memories. You may even consider signing up as a couple to attend Family Life Education workshops to pick up lifeskills to help grow your marriage! Very interesting.

3. Share your moments

Helping and consoling each other in moments of disappointments or frustrations as couples, allows your lives to come together as one which is truly what a marriage should be. As you offer each other your presence, a comforting hug and support, you are living out your marriage vows – to love, comfort and honour each other.

4. Setting goals

Most of us are quite accustomed to planning and setting goals for our careers and our personal development. It shouldn’t be any different with your marriage! Romance will not just happen on its own and relationships will not blossom by chance without any effort. Setting goals as a couple, planning your dates and keeping them, and honouring your marriage vows are some of the efforts you can make to grow your marriage. We made sure to do our best during courtship. So, let’s make an effort to do even better after marriage!

5. Be willing to say “sorry”

Always remember this no one is perfect. When the time comes to say “sorry”, say it and mean it. It may take a bit more time and effort to rebuild the trust that has been broken, but it can be done if a couple puts their hearts to it together. .

6. Be part of a community

The advantage of plugging yourselves into a community of married couples is that you will be surrounded by other couples who can be an encouragement to both of you. Hearing their success stories as well as failures, and sharing yours help keep your expectations of your own marriage in check.

In encouragement to both of you. Hearing their success stories as well as failures, and sharing yours help keep your expectations of your own marriage in tag.