Relationships need to give a deaf ear to the external society because each and every one of us carries a cross

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A poor man always think that the rich man, made his wealth out of luck.

And the rich man believes the poor is poor, because he is lazy.

A young lady who got married very early, thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.

A man who just graduated and gets a job immediately, thinks he is smarter than others.

While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people, who lived a wayward life and probably have "occultic" husbands who sacrifices their babies.

If only the poor, knew the price the rich paid to get to the top. And if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through. None, will ever form a theory about each other.

If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success, let him mind his business. If it is easy to be rich, he wouldn't have been poor.

And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least, he should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.

If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene, you will always thank God for your life. Until you walk in people's shoes, you will never know how hard the journey is.

Help each other grow. its very important.

GO FOR COUNCILLING BEFORE MARRIAGE

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TO MEN IN MARRIAGE

I alway say any MAN demanding for respect or submission from a woman is undoubtedly not doing something right. A man can never tell me he is playing his role as a man and she is not reciprocating. My brother I will tell you fat lie.

Even in de society wen all men are gathered as long as your a man who is not meeting up to standard no one even your fellow men won't respect you my brother. Submission mean respect so why come home to kill your innocent wife with your chant of uselessness

go work , huzzle and provide your respect and i tell you submissiveness from a woman will come naturally

Respect is earned not demanded.

TO WOMEN IN MARRIAGE

Women too we know are not small. Women should married a man and not a boy. Not just any man but a man that  has been providing, playing his role from the onset as a MAN. Courtship has a very big role before marriage, not starting hot hot now and when things are not going well for him now you no longer want to respect and submit to him...

you are a disgrace to woman hood my sister because if u were a wise woman that called man or husband won't have crumbled you in de first place without u lifting him up.

Marriage is a journey before you embark on needs adequate preparation, councilling and mentorship.. 

Wish you a pappy marriage life or preparation for marriage.

Discribing a banana to HOLINESS

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Once a Pastor was preaching about holiness inside AND out. A brother interrupted the Pastor and asked this question: 

" When you eat a banana,  what do you eat? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The Pastor answered him, "the inside." The brother responded to him, 

"so God is more concerned with what is on the inside (the heart) than what is on the outside (appearance). 

The Pastor immediately received a word from God and asked the brother this question,

 "when you go to buy bananas,  What do you notice first? The inside? Or the outside?" 

The brother said, 

 "the outside." 

The Pastor replied, 

"because Holiness IS inside AND out.  Having a clean heart is important.  But dressing as children of God is also important. "

WHY A GUY CAN'T STAY IN A DATE WITH YOU MY SISTER

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A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them S..x, Some have even turned into S..x toys just to keep their man

Let us be very open here.

S..x might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove s..x from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their man!

Keep S..x aside, what do you have to offer your  man

Can you support him Spiritually?

Can you Support him physically/Financially?

How about Mentally?

All you do is Demand Money for Bags, money for shoes,money for a phones, money for clothes and unnecessary Outings etc

Making him spend unnecessarily. 

What are you even bringing to the table???

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future???

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for already made husband when you are not a made Wife...

Hope you got my point, I am not being that harsh just to our ladies, just telling them my own part of the observation.. 

MEN SHOULD CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER WISELY (WIFE)

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When a man goes into choosing A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage house full time.

If you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY.

If you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you.

If you choose to be with a STRONG BRAVE WOMAN, you need to accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways.

If you choose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, you need to accept all the EXPENSES.

If you choose to be with A GREAT/CAREER WOMAN,you must also accept that she is HARD and FIRM.

If you choose A DADDY'S GIRL, get ready to pamper her and treat her like a baby.

NO WOMAN IS PERFECT

A woman has her own "GOOD THING" that defines who she is and makes her unique.

Go for what can your tolerate....

NO TO SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

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 Couples who wish to enjoy their marital relationship, should NEVER for WHAT SO EVER reason creat a room for secrets in marriage.

 Secrets totally wipes out trust in marriage. Secrets destroy marriage. 

Your spouse should AVOID acting loke a detective, investigator or secret service agent. Successful marriages are built on transparency, openness and truthfulness. 

Couples should know, It takes years to build trust, but it takes a single secret to destroy it and it takes sincere apologies and a lifetime of proven honest living to restore and repair it. 

Respect your spouse and honor your commitment. Live an honorable, open and honest life. 

“The two shall become one flesh.”

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE TODAY WITH THE BITTER TRUTH ABOUT IT ALL.

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Marriage is a journey most singles dream to pass through. Before you embark on the marriage journey, you should know so we'll  that in marriage,
There are days you wish you had remained single.
There are also months you look at your spouse and wonder 'what was i thinking when I married him/her?
There are times you'll wish you had married someone different.
There are times you feel like  divorce is the only option left.
There are instances you feel betrayed beyond recovery.
There are also times you feel your love is been taken for granted. 

             Beloveth You are not alone. The truth is that every marriage has it's fair share of trials/difficult moments. Every marriage goes through rough times. Every Husband and wife experiences perplexing moments. Remember it's the rough surfaces that sharpen the best. Rough times are meant to build your marriage not break it. The beauty of marriage is in realizing that difficult seasons are temporal moments. Straight roads don't make experienced drivers.

God bless every marriage