LOVE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING ( L-RAM)

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot There are so many factors that can get in the way of a good marriage, but MOST often, they are the small, unnoticed things that make their way in. In order to make sure our marriages survive and thrive, here are some relationship killers every couple should be on the lookout for: 1. Family 2. Lack of Proper Communication  3. Always Finding Fault 4. Selfishness 5. Unforgiveness 6. Loose Boundaries 7. The Past 8. Dishonesty 9. Pride 10. Jealousy and lack of trust 12. Lack of interest Love is like a plant. If you don't feed it and take care of it every day, it will die eventually.

1. YOU ALLOW YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO DISRESPECT YOUR WOMAN  You have failed as a Man or husband if or when you allow your family and friends disrespect your woman/wife. Any one who disrespect your woman/wife in a relationship or marriage, disrespect you. It's as simple as that. Avoid talking bad about your woman/wife in a public place so that she won't get disrespected. Don't be too quick to share the negative attitude of your woman/wife to families and friends because it will reduce her person before them. Your woman/wife issues should be handle in private or at home alone. Men should take note.   2. BEATEN UP A WOMAN/WIFE : Women are not kids. Some men are indeed a wife beater. No woman can stand a man who beat the living hell out of her often over a little misunderstanding. Beating your woman/wife diminishes the respect she had for you. It takes away all the love, affection and feelings ,thereby making you to look like a boy who don't know what relationship/marria...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot    1. Don't have another woman apart from your wife    2. Thou shall not speak evil about your wife to your family.    3. Remember the labour of your wife when you were poor. So when you're rich honour her.    4. Don't compare your wife to any woman even your mother.    5. 6 days maximum shall thee work 1 day shall be a Sabbath day for your wife.   6. Honour your father and mother in_ law so that their daughter will not return to them.   7. Don't insult your wife in public so that people will not know your foolishness.   8. Forgive your wife 70 x7 in 1 day.   9. Thou shall make your wife happy at all times. Always ask her: Are you okay?   10. Thou shall not say to your wife, leave my house. No matter what. Because you are the one that should leave. Yes, she owns the house.

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot NO_ONE_KNOWS_TOMORROW_BELOVET Today you hear the say man is born, Tomorrow you hear he is dead. A man lives in a mansion today, Tomorrow he lives underground. A man drives a car today, Tomorrow an ambulance drives him. A man reads biology today, Tomorrow a biography is been read of him. A man eats whatever he wants today, Tomorrow he becomes food for insects. A man is always early for work today, Tomorrow he is termed late Mr./Mrs. A man is seen resting in his house today, Tomorrow he is resting in a coffin. And they say "Rest In Peace"! A man eats all kinds of fruits in his house today, Tomorrow he becomes manure to those trees. A man is known today as the richest man ever, Tomorrow he doesn't even know where or what will happen to his riches. What is life after all? Plan your life because you may not see tomorrow. But when your life is well planned, you won't be afraid of anything. ...

  RELATIONSHIPS MUST PASS THROUGH TIMES, It doesn’t matter how long your relationship has lasted or is presently. This is because all relationships will fit direct or indirectly in any of the relationship stages described below.    THE FIRST STAGE:   It often starts with an intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other. Both of you may be intensely s..xually attracted to each other or both of you may just love the cuddles and each other’s company. In this stage, both of you overlook any flaws of each other and only focus on the good sides.   THE SECOND STAGE :   This is the understanding stage. In this stage, both of you start getting to know each other better. You have long conversations with your partner that stretches late into the night, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you. You talk about each other’s families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets, and life seems so beautiful and ro...

WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARITAL  HOME? AND STOP ASKING WHEN I AM GETTING MARRIED   Everyone be it you are a man or a woman should know we all have our weaknesses. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of him or her strength. Manage the weaknesses of your spouse with love to get the best out of it. Do not be too critical, argumentative, excessively nagging and demanding. These things kills love because they show lack of understanding of the weaknesses of your spouse. Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel here on Earth. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future for an enjoyable happy marriage life. Every marriage has its own challenges. Newly wedded couples in the field should know that marriage is not a bed o...

Some or most guys think virginity makes a good wife. Virginity is a pride to a woman. After your first copulation, it will exist no more. Don't thick of marrying her because she is a virgin,  marry because she's a WIFE . A good wife,is a crown of the husband. Seek that good wife. Any lady who failed as a daughter in her youthful single stage of life, is a mistake for a wife. Because a lady is trained as a daughter to become the crown of her husband. Marrying a virgin is a pride but it does not guarantee successful marriage. Seek the good qualities that make a woman a wife. To those of u guy who are single, find a wife, I mean a good wife. Don't ruin your marriage for the want of a virgin. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.... And for the virgins acquire the good Qualities of a wife, don't make that pride you kept so long to the last day become a waste.   AM I COMMUNICATING ???       Share to help someone to ...

Let consider a man just returned home so hungry, and the lovely wife was in the kitchen preparing lunch for him. After sometime waiting he shouted ”mummy junior.” The wife rushed to the sitting room and replied, “yes m husband.” The hungry man said in a harsh loud voice, “what are you doing? I’m so hungry, how many hours will the food take to be done? Please go and get me food, I beg you in the name of God”. After this shouting the wife will feel very bad because it seems as if her best is not appreciated she has been doing everything to meet up with the cooking, so her husband could eat as soon as he enters the house but couldn’t meet up. If there is one thing a woman adores and feels her guy or husband love her most is APPRECIATION. Men ohhhhhhhhhhh are we there?  You don’t know her sacrifice to rush to make that cooking. And you shouted at her.  LET MUST THE MEN ALWAY TRY TO BE ROMANTIC Suppose you return back from work, you can try this. As you returned, instead of shout...

Are married couples encouraged to watch porn so as to boost their sex lives?  I WILL SHOUT my answer is in capital letter NO. What couples should KNOW more about porn. 1.  PORN IS DEMONIC:  The principal aim of porn is not to help you improve your sex habit in marriage, it is to spread lust and break marriages. You cannot watch porn and not be lusted for you will expect your wife to have something bigger, rounder, and flatter or toner while the wife will expects the husband to have it larger down. What we should know is that most of this women acting porn are fake for they did plastic surgery, breast enlargement, bottom enlargement, manhood enlargement, etc. and they do not have to battle sagging and stretch marks because they aren't producing babies and breast feeding! Never compare your wife with a porn star, never! She is not a prostitute! Never expect your husband to have a bigger manhood, you are not a whore. 2.  PORN STARS ARE NOT MARRIED:  A porn star ...