WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARITAL HOME

WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARITAL HOME? AND STOP ASKING WHEN I AM GETTING MARRIED

 

Everyone be it you are a man or a woman should know we all have our weaknesses. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of him or her strength. Manage the weaknesses of your spouse with love to get the best out of it. Do not be too critical, argumentative, excessively nagging and demanding. These things kills love because they show lack of understanding of the weaknesses of your spouse.

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel here on Earth. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future for an enjoyable happy marriage life.

Every marriage has its own challenges. Newly wedded couples in the field should know that marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow "For better for worse". In "sickness" and in "health" you will be there for each other. Then what suddenly happened? Married couples should make friends with married partners.

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with anyone else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true. United you stand, divided you fall and fail in all your individual dreams.

Getting married is just like declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Disrespect

Cheating

Let the couples came together in fighting all this points in other to maintain a happy and enjoyable marriage atmosphere.

There is NO perfect marriage here on Earth. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Couples should not be careless with there marriage.

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Getting married is equal to taking a huge risk in life. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might seek for divorce but marriage is for togetherness until death does you apart.

Marriage is not a contract, it's a life engagement which depend on how prepared you are in this engagement. Because it is permanent . It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind when the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce. Friends are the highest devil in a marriage.

Before going into marriage know that every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is compared to a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. Deliberately input Goodness into your marriage to make it sweet for your spouse.

Today pray for your marriage and ask God to help you anywhere you are lacking in your marriage.

God bless you all.