LOVE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING ( L-RAM)

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot After the excitement of a wedding and moving into the marital home, we need to know that marriage is a journey and couples need to make intentional efforts to steer it towards its success to keep it's PASSION ALIVE.. 1. Couple  Face-Chatting .  Couples need to set aside a time for regular heart-to-heart talks to make sure that they are on the same page in their relationship. Such sessions also give couples the chance to share about areas in their relationship that they would like to work on together to make their bond stronger. Couples Face-chat should be effective, so couples need to intentionally make time for it. Be present physically in the same space with your spouse, put your mobile phones aside, and make eye contact. As an analogy, Couple Face-Chat is like a carpark lot where you can park your issues until you next visit it again and pick up from where you left off. An estimated 30 minu...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot When you put on an oversize shoe, get ready to drag it along through out your life here on Earth and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the tied   pains through out your life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. SINGLES OHHH, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: 1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that is favourable with your values and beliefs, the one who you meet at your life's journey.  It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife or a husband. 2. POSITION: Not all ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Once a lady accepts to date a married man, she automatically agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as A PERSON OF LOW VALUE. Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can't call him when he is at home with family. My sisters, you be toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home..... My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet  you don't even know the name of the street where he lives..... My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, ...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot Building a good, solid and long lasting relationship or marriage is all about the following tactics. #1. Always answer the phone call when your spouse calls. if possible, keep your phones turned off when you’re spending quality time together. #2. Forgive quickly. This sounds simple, but it is one of the most challenging parts of a marriage relationship for many. On the flip side, when you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly ask for forgiveness. #3. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage. Don’t spend time with people who will tear down your marriage or may even tempt you to compromise your character. #4. Make sex a priority. A good marriage relationship is built on more than sex, but it is an important element of a strong marriage. #5. Keep communication lines open. Don’t assume you know what your spouse is thinking or feeling. Ask them, and listen attentively when they are tal...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot There are so many factors that can get in the way of a good marriage, but MOST often, they are the small, unnoticed things that make their way in. In order to make sure our marriages survive and thrive, here are some relationship killers every couple should be on the lookout for: 1. Family 2. Lack of Proper Communication  3. Always Finding Fault 4. Selfishness 5. Unforgiveness 6. Loose Boundaries 7. The Past 8. Dishonesty 9. Pride 10. Jealousy and lack of trust 12. Lack of interest Love is like a plant. If you don't feed it and take care of it every day, it will die eventually.

1. YOU ALLOW YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO DISRESPECT YOUR WOMAN  You have failed as a Man or husband if or when you allow your family and friends disrespect your woman/wife. Any one who disrespect your woman/wife in a relationship or marriage, disrespect you. It's as simple as that. Avoid talking bad about your woman/wife in a public place so that she won't get disrespected. Don't be too quick to share the negative attitude of your woman/wife to families and friends because it will reduce her person before them. Your woman/wife issues should be handle in private or at home alone. Men should take note.   2. BEATEN UP A WOMAN/WIFE : Women are not kids. Some men are indeed a wife beater. No woman can stand a man who beat the living hell out of her often over a little misunderstanding. Beating your woman/wife diminishes the respect she had for you. It takes away all the love, affection and feelings ,thereby making you to look like a boy who don't know what relationship/marria...

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot    1. Don't have another woman apart from your wife    2. Thou shall not speak evil about your wife to your family.    3. Remember the labour of your wife when you were poor. So when you're rich honour her.    4. Don't compare your wife to any woman even your mother.    5. 6 days maximum shall thee work 1 day shall be a Sabbath day for your wife.   6. Honour your father and mother in_ law so that their daughter will not return to them.   7. Don't insult your wife in public so that people will not know your foolishness.   8. Forgive your wife 70 x7 in 1 day.   9. Thou shall make your wife happy at all times. Always ask her: Are you okay?   10. Thou shall not say to your wife, leave my house. No matter what. Because you are the one that should leave. Yes, she owns the house.

Love,relationship analysis and mentoring Men Vs Women forum Blogspot NO_ONE_KNOWS_TOMORROW_BELOVET Today you hear the say man is born, Tomorrow you hear he is dead. A man lives in a mansion today, Tomorrow he lives underground. A man drives a car today, Tomorrow an ambulance drives him. A man reads biology today, Tomorrow a biography is been read of him. A man eats whatever he wants today, Tomorrow he becomes food for insects. A man is always early for work today, Tomorrow he is termed late Mr./Mrs. A man is seen resting in his house today, Tomorrow he is resting in a coffin. And they say "Rest In Peace"! A man eats all kinds of fruits in his house today, Tomorrow he becomes manure to those trees. A man is known today as the richest man ever, Tomorrow he doesn't even know where or what will happen to his riches. What is life after all? Plan your life because you may not see tomorrow. But when your life is well planned, you won't be afraid of anything. ...

  RELATIONSHIPS MUST PASS THROUGH TIMES, It doesn’t matter how long your relationship has lasted or is presently. This is because all relationships will fit direct or indirectly in any of the relationship stages described below.    THE FIRST STAGE:   It often starts with an intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other. Both of you may be intensely s..xually attracted to each other or both of you may just love the cuddles and each other’s company. In this stage, both of you overlook any flaws of each other and only focus on the good sides.   THE SECOND STAGE :   This is the understanding stage. In this stage, both of you start getting to know each other better. You have long conversations with your partner that stretches late into the night, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you. You talk about each other’s families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets, and life seems so beautiful and ro...

WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARITAL  HOME? AND STOP ASKING WHEN I AM GETTING MARRIED   Everyone be it you are a man or a woman should know we all have our weaknesses. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of him or her strength. Manage the weaknesses of your spouse with love to get the best out of it. Do not be too critical, argumentative, excessively nagging and demanding. These things kills love because they show lack of understanding of the weaknesses of your spouse. Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel here on Earth. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future for an enjoyable happy marriage life. Every marriage has its own challenges. Newly wedded couples in the field should know that marriage is not a bed o...

Some or most guys think virginity makes a good wife. Virginity is a pride to a woman. After your first copulation, it will exist no more. Don't thick of marrying her because she is a virgin,  marry because she's a WIFE . A good wife,is a crown of the husband. Seek that good wife. Any lady who failed as a daughter in her youthful single stage of life, is a mistake for a wife. Because a lady is trained as a daughter to become the crown of her husband. Marrying a virgin is a pride but it does not guarantee successful marriage. Seek the good qualities that make a woman a wife. To those of u guy who are single, find a wife, I mean a good wife. Don't ruin your marriage for the want of a virgin. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.... And for the virgins acquire the good Qualities of a wife, don't make that pride you kept so long to the last day become a waste.   AM I COMMUNICATING ???       Share to help someone to ...