LOVE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS AND MENTORING ( L-RAM)

  RELATIONSHIPS MUST PASS THROUGH TIMES, It doesn’t matter how long your relationship has lasted or is presently. This is because all relationships will fit direct or indirectly in any of the relationship stages described below.    THE FIRST STAGE:   It often starts with an intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other. Both of you may be intensely s..xually attracted to each other or both of you may just love the cuddles and each other’s company. In this stage, both of you overlook any flaws of each other and only focus on the good sides.   THE SECOND STAGE :   This is the understanding stage. In this stage, both of you start getting to know each other better. You have long conversations with your partner that stretches late into the night, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you. You talk about each other’s families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets, and life seems so beautiful and ro...

WHAT MAKES A HAPPY MARITAL  HOME? AND STOP ASKING WHEN I AM GETTING MARRIED   Everyone be it you are a man or a woman should know we all have our weaknesses. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of him or her strength. Manage the weaknesses of your spouse with love to get the best out of it. Do not be too critical, argumentative, excessively nagging and demanding. These things kills love because they show lack of understanding of the weaknesses of your spouse. Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel here on Earth. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future for an enjoyable happy marriage life. Every marriage has its own challenges. Newly wedded couples in the field should know that marriage is not a bed o...

Some or most guys think virginity makes a good wife. Virginity is a pride to a woman. After your first copulation, it will exist no more. Don't thick of marrying her because she is a virgin,  marry because she's a WIFE . A good wife,is a crown of the husband. Seek that good wife. Any lady who failed as a daughter in her youthful single stage of life, is a mistake for a wife. Because a lady is trained as a daughter to become the crown of her husband. Marrying a virgin is a pride but it does not guarantee successful marriage. Seek the good qualities that make a woman a wife. To those of u guy who are single, find a wife, I mean a good wife. Don't ruin your marriage for the want of a virgin. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.... And for the virgins acquire the good Qualities of a wife, don't make that pride you kept so long to the last day become a waste.   AM I COMMUNICATING ???       Share to help someone to ...

Let consider a man just returned home so hungry, and the lovely wife was in the kitchen preparing lunch for him. After sometime waiting he shouted ”mummy junior.” The wife rushed to the sitting room and replied, “yes m husband.” The hungry man said in a harsh loud voice, “what are you doing? I’m so hungry, how many hours will the food take to be done? Please go and get me food, I beg you in the name of God”. After this shouting the wife will feel very bad because it seems as if her best is not appreciated she has been doing everything to meet up with the cooking, so her husband could eat as soon as he enters the house but couldn’t meet up. If there is one thing a woman adores and feels her guy or husband love her most is APPRECIATION. Men ohhhhhhhhhhh are we there?  You don’t know her sacrifice to rush to make that cooking. And you shouted at her.  LET MUST THE MEN ALWAY TRY TO BE ROMANTIC Suppose you return back from work, you can try this. As you returned, instead of shout...

Are married couples encouraged to watch porn so as to boost their sex lives?  I WILL SHOUT my answer is in capital letter NO. What couples should KNOW more about porn. 1.  PORN IS DEMONIC:  The principal aim of porn is not to help you improve your sex habit in marriage, it is to spread lust and break marriages. You cannot watch porn and not be lusted for you will expect your wife to have something bigger, rounder, and flatter or toner while the wife will expects the husband to have it larger down. What we should know is that most of this women acting porn are fake for they did plastic surgery, breast enlargement, bottom enlargement, manhood enlargement, etc. and they do not have to battle sagging and stretch marks because they aren't producing babies and breast feeding! Never compare your wife with a porn star, never! She is not a prostitute! Never expect your husband to have a bigger manhood, you are not a whore. 2.  PORN STARS ARE NOT MARRIED:  A porn star ...

1.      Communication, good communication is a key part of any relationship. When both people know what they want from the relationship and feel comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, it can increase trust and strengthen the bond between you.   2.      Any single who does not like s..x automatically implies you have nothing to do with marriage.  Be it a man or a woman, Don't create problems for yourself, because no man or woman can endure s..xless marriage. To a man, s..x  is food and if you are not ready to feed him please remain single.  To_a_woman, s..x is love, if she is not touched she feels unloved.         Christians most especially should note that, it is not a sin to be single but it       is a sin to marry and be denying your husband or wife s..x .    3.      To accept a gu...

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1. One day you will retire. You won't be going to work. You won’t have office power any more. No influence or at best, a reduced influence. Your cash flow will also reduce.! Check retirement date on your payslip. 2. Always go for your 30days annual leave. Whatever you do during your leave, is what you will be doing when you retire. If all you do is to sleep or watch football , then that’s what you are likely do do in your retirement. Remember the book of Proverbs. A little sleep and a little slumber, so shall your poverty multiply. Watching Bayern munchen  and  Liverpool  matches  , will not save you heartache in retirement. Learn a trade or a skill during your leave. It will come handy. Spend your after-office hours learning something. Don’t spend it sleeping, Gossiping, watching soaps !! Same goes for your weekend. Make them productive. You will thank yourself for spending your time productively. 3. Invest for your retirement.. . Your children are not ret...